Everyone has different needs and likes, but what makes a session stand out?
Candle or Incense lit for a good sensory vibe, dim lights, great music or a spooky movie, I’ve had people come over with great recommendations of music, people that are down for scary movies and that’s always a great vibe for me because I’m too scared to watch them alone but I do enjoy them in safe company haha or just chats that seem effortless bring good cozy vibes, And of course lots of heads scratches/arm tickles, that always puts me in a trance even just giving them I fall into a flow state where I get super relaxed ♥️
Have a connection with the other person. Makes a huge difference
I had a non-pro session with a really nice lady. We were cuddling on the bed and she had her arms around me and I was tucked in while she was running her fingers thru my hair. OMG...it was 7th heaven for me. It had been years. I was like a little puppy dog... It was a daytime cuddle so candles and accessories didn't seem so applicable. However, an evening session would require candles or soft lighting. Along with some soft instrumental music. In fact, I just ordered a somewhat romantic instrumental cd for such occasions. It's soothing to me...just by myself. Also having some appropriate snacks that aren't messy...seems like a good idea.
what makes a session stand out?
A proper price point, five stars, AI enhanced karma, well placed flattery in my general direction, and a raging case of cooties.
For me … a relational connection helps best (usually through text/email communication), but time with the other individual is a major factor. A matching trust in each other’s intentions and expectations.
Outside of that: soft instrumental or ambient music, subtle scents from each other or the space we are in, low light with candles or dim lights, and a good temperature not too warm or cold.