@TichantoP I have adopted movie theater cuddling as my form of public cuddling. Most pros that I have invited to do so have always asked when the next movie is. I've also done a park cuddle once during the Fall when it wasn't hot. Just cuddled on a blanket in the grass
I have seen this as well but did not report as I did not know it was against TOS. I mean if it's a natural secondary thing during your session at the same pricing it's ok like shoulder massage or whatever but not separate service.
Just be wary what your boundaries
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It's always seemed a bit odd and not really cuddling, per se. Especially when it's for an unrelated activity that is not at either person's place. Kind of like a "rent-a-friend" for family reunions, weddings, corporate events, etc.
Movie theater cuddling is something that I've wondered about. I did it before with enthusiasts, but never with a pro. Seeing how cuddle sessions are usually paid by the hour, how does it work when watching a movie? Do you have to account for the exact length of the movie including the 20ish minutes of previews before the movie starts? What if it's for example a 2 hour and 27 minute movie? If a person paid for 2 hours of cuddling would the pro just leave before the movie finishes or put the arm rest down and stop cuddling? Or what if someone paid for 3 hours, where do you cuddle for the rest of time? Do you stay through the credits and until the employees kick you out of the theater? I am genuinely curious how it works and would appreciate various opinions and answers. While I have also done other public cuddling, it was never in a paid cuddle session. Those have been private.
That's a lot of in depth questions 🤔
I think that it's a totally freedom of everyone to do what they want but to be responsible of their actions. This is a website only for cuddling and such actions can deteriorate our experience here and cause anxiety to people about others honesty, so I strongly agree with reporting that and would ask moderators to ban those people right away or warn them once or twice before totally banning them from this website.
@CSnMUS87 To do this, you need to connect to a pro that is willing to set a price that reasonably reflects their hourly rate. I don't think we can min-max cuddle time here.
Also there are other factors like travel to the movie theater?
I'll tell you my experience. I have a pro that I flew in to visit her, because she is a my favorite cuddle buddy and we've had a really good connection and chemistry on our prior cuddles. In order to get the most out of my time travelling to her just to cuddle, she happily agreed to pick me up at the airport and drive us to the theater. I rented an airbnb.
I blocked 2 sessions that were 3 hours each since she felt she could be most present in a 3 hour block. The first night we talked about what movie we wanted to watch. At the time it was Life Of Chuck, and it really made our time special because this wasn't a movie that had a large audience. It didn't appeal to everyone. But we felt it would be our kind of movie.
This is the most important: She knew a theater where you had the lounge seats, but you could up the armrest. They also served food and since she's vegan, I bought us both vegan ice cream.
So my answer to you is based not so much on maximizing the time, but having a great experience with someone who'll be able to work with you and to make it fun!
I hope this helps!
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1 in 5 profiles in my area and second home violates the rules, how many can I report ?
@roni56 You can visit the Pro’s profile and underneath Request to Book and to the right there are 3 dots, press the dots & in the drop down menu choose Report. (See below). You can also contact a Mod & give them the username> @CuddleDuncan @CharlieBear @BlueIris are a few. They don’t know about the people breaking rules until someone reports them.
I really think this is splitting hairs. Let people cuddle how they cuddle, as long as its safe I say. Keep it simple.
Trying to apply black-and-white rules to the cuddling world adds rigidity that doesn't do anything other than make it more complicated.
Ex: banning the word "massage" because it could be a code word for sex when pretty much every cuddle has some sort of stroking or massage muddies up the entire vision.
The question stands: How do you really stop a bad person's underlying motives?
Make more rules for everyone else?
That in turn contributes to more people taking it off the site. And more people getting hurt.
This is coming from a client (me) who was sexually assaulted on his first cuddle without a single indicator on the person's profile until I was forcefully grabbed mid-cuddle. That profile is deleted now.
This is hot topic example, but I really want you all to think: I always tell my religious friends that religion has created the most atheists.
Why? Because the rules are forceful and rigid. When the true source people want to connect with is simple: to be seen by their creator and accepted.
Seen and accepted.
In the cuddling world we just want to be seen, held, and accepted.
Just seen, held and accepted.
And yes, the bad apples can F*** off because they absolutely ruin the simplicity of it all. I would rather there be a more sustained punishment for the bad ones than temp bans.
Ex: sex workers can simply take down their web page of extra offerrings and come right back. You think they'll stop sex working?
Better gatekeeping for duplicate accounts.