I’m curious, most people probably lean toward PJs, right?
What would you prefer your cuddler to wear? And do you like a little perfume, or none at all?
Personally, I don’t like when my clients wear cologne
I don’t really care what they wear as long as they’re comfortable, but I have a very sensitive nose, so nothing scented is MUCH appreciated!
I honestly dont mind what the cuddler wears. I just assume they wear whatever is comfortable for them. I do reach out when its hot to make sure t shirt and shorts is ok from me. Im also ok if the cuddler wears perfume or doesn't, it does not take away anything from the cuddle for me. Im pretty relaxed.
I just want whoever I'm spending time with to be comfortable and feel secure and safe, so whatever they choose to wear is fine by me. Just be clean and not stinky is all I can ask for.
Nope. Tee shirt and knee length stretchy bike shorts. I don't have any scent sensitivities. In fact, I favor strong scents. But I've never had a cuddler put on any man cologne to cuddle with me. I'd never put on any cologne for a cuddle because the purpose of cologne is to attract someone, perhaps more than I want them to be attracted.
IMHO, pajamas and cologne for a cuddle send the wrong message to the wrong person.
I like skin contact....so t-shirt and shorts.... Please no perfume ...
@CCman I agree with that. Even better than a t-shirt is a tank top or other sleeveless top.
People wear all sorts of things. Safety and comfort first.
I had a cuddler that said no cologne* which I always ask before meeting.
She wore essential oils that made my bed smell like a burnt forest 🤢
*btw I disagree @BlueIris that cologne is for sexual attraction. I wear it at work. It is part of a man's attire for confidence.
It would be like saying if a woman wore make-up to a cuddle, it means for sexual attraction. Once again, for feeling confident among a variety of reasons.
I always wear Sex Panther.
Something soft. No perfume no makeup.
I always ask if my cuddle.parnters are allergic to or have a sensitivity to perfume ... wether it be cologne or lotions or hair products etc..
@BlueIris when she says pjs I think flannel comfy pants and a T-shirt or tank top .. not sure how that would give wrong impression. I personally would die of a heat stroke wearing flannel pj's being here in California. And.id rather a cuddle partner have in cologne then smell too musky from being at work or out in the heat on the way to a cuddle as long as it's not overwhelming Ijs imo
I prefer my cuddlers not to wear denim or wool ... those materials are super itchy and uncomfortable against my skin and makes my neruospicyness activate into a huge irritated state.
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I always wear a white shirt and basketball shorts. White can be bleached so ill be clean. I cuddled someone once that didnt wear deodorant and had alot of armpit hair so not having to burn my shirt afterwards was a plus.
I dont wear any fragrance to a session but just shower with dove so theres no real scent to me yet ive gotten compliments about smelling good for some reason.
Tee shirt, shorts and a light body spray or perfume
something soft and comfy, usually a pair of light weight sweatpants and a t shirt.
and I'm sensitive to smells a lot of cologne and perfumes, so I try not to wear anything that has a lot of perfume in it, other than deodorant. and I ask folks not to wear cologne or perfumes because I'd like to not end up with a headache at the end.
Pajamas, t shirt with pajama pants, long gym shorts or sweat pants .. no cologne . Just clean scents., clean scents as in the freshly showered soap scent before the session . I don’t wear tank tops or shorts for the session. Appropriate length gym/pajama shorts are ok 👍 I don’t wear makeup or perfume during a session. I like that my cuddle clients tell me before we meet that they prefer a clean, fresh , non make up face 😊 and no perfume ..
A PJ and a T is good enough for me. Some deodorant would help the cause, but no makeup or perfume, please.
She should wear whatever she wants. In 12 years of being on CC, I’ve never once looked at a cuddle buddy and thought, what the heck are you wearing lol and I prefer no perfume.
Usually wear light shorts and a sleeveless T. Always shaved n showered. I make sure to go home for a clean shave n shower, n then hit the road for cuddles. I usually wear very soft light scent which most cuddlers have appreciated very much. No complains so far. I mostly let them know what I will be wearing n if they request otherwise I do oblige.
What the ladies wear is their choice. Whatever they are comfortable in. No pressure. Comfort brings relaxation. Relaxation makes cuddling easy.
The only thing I don’t like about surprises at cuddle sessions is when the pros don’t inform you that they will have the cameras on recording the cuddle session. I noticed twice at two different sessions n had to request to stop recording. They were new on site. But the basic courtesy should have been letting the cuddler know that they would be recoding. Then as a cuddler booking, has a choice to say know to the session. Then be at a session n in the middle of a session notice that you are being recorded. It’s a shame.
I think that the most important thing to wear is what you are comfortable with while doing multiple positions and this is why it's preferable to wear PJs. Personally, I prefer wearing PJ pants and T-shirt. And about cologne, I prefer not wearing any and advise everyone not to wear while cuddling as it's not an action for attention or attraction, but relaxation. But, of course you should take a bath and brush your teeth before coming.
A light perfume is pleasant, but too strong makes my eyes water.
I generally wear shorts & tshirt, and have had cuddle partners wear the same, or sometimes pajamas. I did have one show up wearing ... i dont know what to call it, an animal hoodie onesie type PJ outfit. She drew attention from the neighbors lol
lol one cuddler came dressed up wild. The hotel staff stopped her and asked her where she was going. Luckily she had the room number n my name. Front desk asked me if I was expecting anyone lol n I did say I was expecting a guest. lol n they let her come to the room. That was funny.
I'm loving all of these topics! I'm new here and super curious about cuddle culture. The only scent that I wouldn't want to smell is lavender. Everyone I know seems to love it, though. Vanilla is good. Anything sweet, or citrusy, smells great to me. I prefer more natural scents, I suppose.
Attire... I'm a very sensory person, I don't like stiff fabrics very much, and I've had to throw shirts away where I can feel the seem pressing into my back. I would probably wear something I would wear in the gym; light and soft clothing.
@lunasopta I’m the same! They put lavender in everything cause it’s “calming”. It makes me nauseous and gives me a headache. 🤷♀️
Back when I drank, I once had a bartender put lavender in my drink!!! It was the only time I've spit a cocktail back into the glass. The result of, "you can make me whatever if you are feeling creative". Yes, I still paid for it and tipped.
Bold move giving them full creative freedom 🤣 But good on you for handling it with grace. 😁
Other than how my face must have looked! I imagine that was... something less than graceful.
I don’t think some of you have experienced a lavender bidet. You will be drawing people’s attention to your butt when you walk down an airplane aisle. Yes it’s that good.