Attire is totally open, wear whatever you're most comfortable in, whether that's PJs, sweats, a t-shirt and shorts, or anything soft and cozy.
The one non-negotiable? Basic hygiene. Please shower beforehand, use deodorant, and make sure your breath is fresh. It goes a long way in making the experience pleasant and relaxing for both of us.
As for scents, less is more. If you wear a light, subtle fragrance that's fine, but strong cologne or perfume can be overwhelming in close proximity, so please keep it minimal or skip it altogether.
Comfort and cleanliness are really all that matter. When both people feel at ease, the whole experience is just better. 😊
For the person I’m cuddling with: no scent( I dislike cologne n “ loud” smells) but freshly showered and sweats or shorts with a t shirt or tank For me: no scent ( but I wear a chemical free coconut/vanilla deodorant ) n leggings with a tank
I do not use any cologne or aftershave for a cuddle. I simply arrive freshly showered with all natural, Eucalyptus Tea Tree body wash. It is a very mild, fresh scent that I have received a lot of positive comments about. Clean clothes and freshly brushed teeth round out my preparations.
I prefer my cuddle partner to prepare similarly, no perfume but clean, natural scented body wash is nice.
@sin67 At least in Missouri- It’s illegal to video record someone without their knowledge. Video footage is inadmissible in court if a crime’s committed.
Personally I think it’s uncomfortable when ppl were their regular clothes. I always tell ppl to wear what they are comfortable in but I also let the know what I will be wearing as well so they know jams are preferred. I also understand that skin to skin contact is a huge part for cuddles so I opt to wear cute jams like lady boxers and a tank. Showering before each cuddle session is a must for both parties, I don’t even have to ask for that, I think it’s just assumed. I would never show up not being 💯 fresh. The goal is for the session to be as soothing and pleasant as can be. I’m also a naturalist so every product I use I make myself, body butter and oils etc and ppl seem to appreciate that so it works for me. But if they do request zero smells of course I respect that.
No scents or fuzzy clothes for me, something loose enough so your movements aren't hindered. Some shampoo can leave a strong scent, sometimes it's good sometimes it's off-putting or at least a distraction instead of being able to relax. It depends if you / your cuddler sitive to this, it's best to have a quick discussion before a session to make sure you're on the same page.