Wanna hear about my ballroom ?
@pmvines I always fill my ballroom, the event is never small
Omg speaking of ice breaker, yesterday I walked up to my wifes car, she had just gotten home. I opened the door and said hello my love, a female I don’t know was walking her dog down the street, heard me, thought I was saying hello to her, smiled and said hello back. I was like I’m sure she didn’t hear the my love part or she probably wouldn’t have said hello back lol
If it’s for a cuddle session, I like to say “ tell me about your day .. how are you feeling ,” or “ so glad we finally connected thank you for carving out time for me.” And before we lie in a bed I’ll shake hands and give a standing hug.
When I'm entering a brand new cuddle session with someone and it feels a little awkward at first, I generally ask if they would like to listen to any music which can start a good chat. One thing I do that generally helps with that though is having a brief meeting at a coffee shop or restaurant for a drink or a snack and a quick conversation. Like 15 to 20 minutes, something like that. It's just nice to meet face-to-face somewhere public that feels secure for us both, while we get to know each other a little bit better before the session.
I tell them I know @pmvines personally and all heck usually breaks loose after that ! 😆😂😆😂😆😂
I guess I've never been awkward in a cuddle. I haven't experienced that
Same here, can’t say I’ve had many awkward moments while cuddling.
@SpicyNSweet is on the money. Conversation is needed to build comfort. Also meeting at a public place gives a feeling of safety and starts things on a great note. Take notes, gentlemen. The more relaxed she is, the more energy she'll have to give.
Lololol @pmvines
I meet at a cafe before the session. I give a big hug and say “ hi 👋, how are you? “ we order a latte/snacks, talk for a few minutes, then , we go to the cuddle location.. Hotel 🏨 or his house. 🏡 I will say something funny or sing a song or two .. I once brought a brand new packaged matching pajama set for my client. He thought it was funny , it set the tone for a fun afternoon 😃
Be yourself 😃
I usually talk about the first ever session I had and how awkward it was because I had no idea what to expect.. And then I ask about some of the funny things that may have happened in their sessions or how their first ever session went and go from there..
I adore starting out being the big spoon!!!! Idk why but it’s sooooo comforting , I always greet with , “ can I offer you an extra large hug?” And that breaks the ice pretty quickly!!! I’ve never had someone say no yet!!!