Burners, NOT defined at a weed smoker as some believe, are actually part of a cultural group that originated through Burning Man. This community definitely helped me explore cuddling again.
I have had an opposite experience with burners all over the US and have heard of too many horrible assaults that involve force/sleep/isolation that I refuse to go to burning man. The victims leave the group. The offenders gaslight and smear campaign or do phony apologies and idk if youve read their tenets but that’s toooo accepting for me