Paused cuddler

x174x174
in Pro Cuddling

I set up a session with a cuddler in a distant city two weeks ago. The session is supposed to take place in two weeks, when I'll be in her city.
She never gave me her contact info, and a few days after the session proposal was confirmed, she paused her profile. So now I don't know what's up, and I can't contact her.
Now I'm worried she won't honor the session. Should I cancel and look for someone else for that time, or wait and hope she activates her profile again?
What would you do?

Comments

  • HappyHikesHappyHikes

    Look for someone else.

  • OhioMikeOhioMike

    Why were you expecting her contact info since she never gave it to you ?

  • x174x174

    If I had her contact info, I could text and find out what's up. I have no way to contact her.

  • OhioMikeOhioMike

    @x174 maybe that’s the issue ? Did you ask for her contact info without her consent? Just trying to understand please and thank you 🙏🏼

  • x174x174

    @OhioMike No. We had a confirmed booking, so I gave her my number. That's the way it works. This isn't my first rodeo.

    She thanked me for it, but never texted back.

    Which was fine until she paused her account. If she didn't want to meet (or doesn't), she can cancel the booking. She hasn't done that.

    Which leaves me in limbo.

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    @x174
    The way it actually works here and is recommended by CC is to keep all communication on this site, through the messaging system here. Some Pros really don’t feel comfortable with Clients who offer their number, could feel pushy if they want to only message here?
    It’s also possible that CC paused her account for any variety of reasons. If she’s not contacting you through the site (or your #) then it seems that you will need to accept that and find someone else.

  • OhioMikeOhioMike

    Thank you @Carrie_Anne 🙏🏼

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    Spot on as usual @OhioMike
    You always ask the right questions 😊🤗

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    If the account really is Paused, then it's an action taken by the site for administrative reasons. The most common reason is that the credit card on file has expired so a payment failed. The account remains Paused until the professional updates the card details. Mostly this happens in a few days.

    If your booking isn't for a couple of weeks, don't worry about it yet. At this stage I'd just wait.

    But yes, if nothing has happened say three days before, your plan of cancelling and booking somebody else is probably the best one.

  • x174x174

    Thanks for the info, Duncan!

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