After six years of positive experiences, I left a review to warn others about a difficult encounter. The moderators removed my review of her, but left her review of me. We never cuddled—she left after 15 minutes saying she'd return, but didn’t. I fully support anyone leaving if uncomfortable—I only want mutually positive interactions. What hurt was I never got a simple goodbye. My original review basically said this and that I hope she's OK. If the moderators are unable to see my perspective, I don’t anticipate feeling comfortable continuing in this community. This makes me sad but I don't see anything else to do, below is her full review for context:
⚠️UPDATE: He's Crazy⚠️
He spent all of today messaging me asking me to remove my initial karma (see below). After I pushed back because my karma was honest and meant to give a fair warning to other cuddlers, he went to my page and changed his karma of me to 1 star and pasted the review I wrote of him below. He has been messaging me crazy stuff all day then blocking me before I can respond just to unblock me and send something else unhinged. He's repeated that cycle all day. If you do choose to cuddle with him do not get on his bad side. He has an anger issue. Once I told him that I was going to escalate his DMs to the authorities because he's scaring me, he told me I was the one threatening him and blocked me. Im so confused and honestly a bit scared of this user. He's reacting this way because his neighbor warned me about him and I left the session. I never charged him I simply left in order to keep myself safe. He's retaliating against me for something his neighbor started. And in all honesty, the way he's acting today tells me that his neighbor was 100% right to warn me.
Here's my initial karma
I waited to write this review to ensure I had time to speak to support and get their advice. I was excited for our session because he had great reviews. We spoke on the phone briefly to break the ice and he seemed like a nice guy.
The day of the session I found his demeanor to be different than it had been on the phone. The inside of his home was a bit cluttered, dark, and hard to maneuver. In addition, there were also some pill bottles and pills around but I couldn't see what they were. I spent about 15 minutes inside of his home all of which was spent with him dancing. He even grabbed my hand to spin me around and unfortunately hit my ankle on something on his floor. I honestly found his conversation and behavior during this time a bit odd. By the time he was ready to cuddle, the incense/candle that was burning in his home had triggered a migraine. That's where I told him I would run to my car for medicine.
On my way to my car, one of his neighbors stopped me and gave a really weird and ominous warning about being careful around him and watching my back. She wouldnt elaborate when I asked her. All she said was "just be careful. There's been some strange things going on over there lately". She then started asking personal questions like where I was from, why she's never seen me before and why I was in this neighborhood. I just thanked her for her warning and continued to my car. After the time I spent with him and his neighbor's warning, I just didnt feel comfortable returning. I didnt charge him for the session, I just decided to leave