Spooning question

[Deleted User]monkeymetyou (deleted user)
in General

So I hired a pro cuddler and was sticking by the rules. And then we spoooned as she snuggled up to me I became aroused But it was too late my private’s were poking her but. She didn’t do anything or say anything and I didn’t grind or anything. But I wouldn’t get soft for a good 10 mins. She never said a thing. Your thoughts?

Comments

  • MarleneMarlene

    I am a professional cuddler and I always discuss arousal prior to scheduling a session. Even though I do nothing during a session to purposely cause arousal, it’s natural for a man to become aroused. I don’t shame them, I don’t embarrass them and honestly, most times I don’t even notice. I joke and say, the wind blows and a man is aroused. So it’s perfectly natural if you get aroused even without the cuddler purposely doing anything sexual. The important thing is how you respond to it. Keep it platonic. I always give the option to change positions or take a quick water break. If my client is aroused but being respectful and not acting upon it, I let it go. No big deal. It’s natural.

  • UKGuyUKGuy
    edited October 2018

    This has been asked over and over and over again. I suggest going back and looking at all the many previous topics that covered the same subject.

  • cuddleversedcuddleversed

    We should have a boner thread alert. They’re always popping up (pun intended)
    Maybe somebody can take the time and get a listing of all the boner threads and make them available to the people that start this kind of topic or maybe even pin the topic.
    Just a thought, maybe there is still new ground to cover regarding erections while cuddling and what to do about them, hint : don’t act on them and cuddle on but that’s just me.

  • mickcuddlemickcuddle

    I’m old and get confused. I remember seeing this post yesterday, posted by a similarly named OP, but his account had bee banned (it’s not THAT bad) and within minutes the post was gone. Is it my imagination?

  • PaulaDahlaPaulaDahla

    You know I think you're right @mickcuddle, I haven't had a chance to follow the forums lately but I could've sworn I actually commented on one just like this the other day also.

  • mickcuddlemickcuddle

    I tried to send the guy a PM to make a couple of suggestions. When I hit send, it told me I wasn’t allowed to do that. I tried to look at his profile, it said he was banned. I tried to re-read the message, it wasn’t here. Not a problem for me really, but it’s curious.

  • CuddleStellaCuddleStella

    generally I ignore any arousal signs as a pro. the only time it becomes an issue is if the cuddler starts grinding, rubbing against it or starts entertaining it somehow. I would switch positions until it goes away or pause the cuddle session. as long as the session is kept platonic, it shouldn't stop any session.

  • quietman775quietman775

    I remember the thread from yesterday that @mickcuddle and others mentioned. I'm NOT referring to the one that was later renamed "Hello." The thread in question was pointlessly descriptive in a juvenile way. I took it to be a troll post. Like this one, it was posted by an October joiner with no previous history on the forum. Maybe these are all troll threads created to stir the pot. Going forward, maybe the best strategy is to ignore them. Flag them if necessary so they get removed, but don't comment on them. When they cease to get a reaction out of people, the trolls will move on. Any legit members with a real question about this topic can just be pointed to the FAQ via PM.

  • CreativeCuddlesCreativeCuddles

    @quietman775 Thank you

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