Meet before Cuddling

LollypopLollypop
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I’m thinking about doing a cuddle session with a professional cuddler, but I’d like to meet/talk with them in person for a few minutes first in order to determine whether or not I’d be comfortable having them come to my home. Am I allowed to ask them to meet at a coffee shop for a few minutes prior to booking a session?

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  • Comet85Comet85

    You can ask, sure.

  • SafeWarmPlzKthxSafeWarmPlzKthx

    The professionals I have worked with did video calls prior to first session. I think one of them offered public meet in place of video call. I don't think that's a requirement but it seems like a safe option of the professional is open to it.

  • VitaminJVitaminJ

    I generally like to do a public meet before going to someone’s home. In my humble opinion It would not be out of place to ask for that.

  • NYCLatnGuyNYCLatnGuy
    edited June 7

    There is nothing wrong with asking, but be ready to compensate them for their travel and time if you are asking them to go somewhere and spend time with you.

  • ksb30ksb30

    Just ask before and you'll be good.. I liked to meet amd cuddle as Im pretty comfortable with lots of d8ffwrwnt types of people

  • trysdettrysdet

    Yes you may

  • BohemianBlondeBohemianBlonde

    I personally would not meet a client unless my time was compensated. I have been swarmed with messages from people who are ready to book without even a chit chat. I guess it all depends how busy/desperate a pro is but if she is busy i am sure she will not meet unless time is compensated

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    Pros will either desire a public meet for their own safety for free prior to a session or they will charge for it. But always make sure beforehand that it is not part of your session time and whether it is free or not. Vetting for scams is important as well.

  • mauvefoxmauvefox

    @BohemianBlonde
    I see you’re a little new here and just wanted to give a little warning that every new woman on this site gets inundated with messages and the majority of them will not have good intent. Please make sure you have a good vetting system in place.

    @Lollypop you can absolutely ask but like others have said it might require payment. Make sure it’s all worked out ahead of time.

  • GroundingLightGroundingLight

    Maybe I’m the only one who feels this way but here it goes…

    You can absolutely ask but you might not have much luck there. A lot of different factors to consider.
    Schedules, distance, time, effort …
    In my area it’s takes minimum 40 min to get anywhere on a good day! Tampa can be a nightmare! That’s a hard pass for me unless I’m being compensated accordingly. I think that’s fair.

    You can always talk on here to feel the pro out, if you think they are a good fit, request a booking, exchange numbers and ask for a FaceTime first.
    Less hassle. If it doesn’t work for you then just cancel your booking request.
    No harm no foul, nobody is out anything and you keep it movin. Easy.
    Another option would be choosing a pro who hosts, then you just go to them.

    There should always be solid communication prior to confirming a session to make sure BOTH parties are comfortable.
    Not trying to sound harsh or disregard you wanting to be comfortable but I AM pretty blunt, you asked AND it’s just my personal opinion 🤷🏽‍♀️

    Pros should always be doing their best to make you feel comfortable anyway. That’s kinda part of the deal. Vice Versa.

    That being said, for all I know most pros do meet ups prior to bookings every time … they might even prefer it.
    I prefer connection and FaceTime…
    Good luck!

  • BohemianBlondeBohemianBlonde

    @mauvefox I am not new to professional cuddling at all and thank you for watching out- I have a pretty good gut feeling and ask the right questions to weed out people i don't want to cuddle with. I am a nomad and it works in my advantage- I am a perpetual "new kid on the block" everybody is excited about.lol. I do notice after two weeks the messages start slowing down in one location and by that time I move to another city.

  • CuddlesWithCatCuddlesWithCat

    Absolutely. Your safety is priority.

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