Deleting Karma

NashGal23NashGal23
in General

Is it normal for cuddle clients to want their karma removed after cuddling with you? I had someone ask me to do this. They asked me to remove it since they’re asking all of their other profilers they’ve cuddled with to do the same. I can understand why someone wouldn’t want karma on the site, but this was not mentioned ahead of time. They originally thanked me for the kind karma I left for them.

Comments

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    Perfectly normal when their spouse finds out and casually mentions castration.

  • cuddlefaerycuddlefaery

    It seems suspicious to me - you'd think if it were a discretion issue with an unconsenting spouse that they would just delete their account. Perhaps they're getting a lot of inquiries from other perspective clients that they don't want to deal with?

  • VAdudeVAdude

    No, it doesn't seem normal. Unless they've suddenly got some 'splainin' to do!! :)

  • pmvinespmvines

    Is it that they have karma from others as well and are now wanting it all scrubbed, or that they are asking only you to remove yours ?

  • mebekmebek

    It's just a ritual they made up an continued it with you

  • MeltMyWayMeltMyWay

    I always ask clients first, before offering them karma. Some people like to stay private

  • penguin34penguin34

    I have automatically responded to Karma by leaving some for the cuddle clients. Some have asked me to remove it to keep their profile "anonymous". Others have deleted their account after receiving karma.
    ( They often create a new account and message me again. Lol 🤣) I do understand the reasoning behind these actions. 😌

  • riz0707riz0707

    Love it when people jump to conlusions....I ask all the time, otherwise I keep getting flooded with messages from guys asking about "more info" on how the session went with a particular pro.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    Love it when people jump to conlusions....I ask all the time

    Yeah that two months you’ve been on the site is a lot of karma to remove.

  • riz0707riz0707
    edited June 9

    ynk sow !

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    ITID

  • pmvinespmvines

    ABCDEFU

  • CuddlingforlifeCuddlingforlife

    I've asked a few to remove karma for multiple reasons. One in particular, he pushed a boundry and gloated about in the karma. Another, I had to change my user name because he found me on another site and kept message me at both places..where it became creepishly ick/ stalking. The account was banned and he came back under another account. Admin had to help me remove some things.. and I went silent on forums until recently.

    There are many reasons to want to be "anonymous".. I prefer it now. Too..

  • NashGal23NashGal23

    I have no problem removing it. It’s sometimes can and sometimes the site doesn’t allow me to. I just prefer people to tell me upfront if they don’t want karma on their profile. I don’t always expect it in return, but do appreciate when people leave a new one on my profile.

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    I've never been asked to remove a Karma, and would be very unlikely to do so...

    Karma is a right we are given to provide other cuddlers with an honest idea of a person. It can not only inform, but protect.

    If someone wants to be anonymous...who are they hiding from? The site wasn't designed to be anonymous. If they don't like the accountability that Karma brings, they don't have to use the site.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

    🫂 Enthusiast 🏞 Travel Junkie 📷 Shutter Bug

  • meditationwolfmeditationwolf

    I actually seen cuddlers profiles, who said they don't want karma because they think it's ridiculous to have someone tell another person why they would be a great cuddler for them.

    I like to go by karma so I know I won't get ripped off, it's very rare I don't go by karma unless they are energy people.

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    I 100% agree with Sunset, above. I also am very skeptical about these secretive guys who claim to be VIPs and many other excuses, to me it’s an automatic 🚩.
    It’s often someone who is married & cuddling without their partner knowing about this, I’ve imagined the hurt their spouse would feel if they find out,
    If someone they know sees their “anonymous” profile, (no photo or bio) their identity isn’t revealed). then that person is also a member also in order to see them.
    Cuddling is not very beneficial if during the whole session one person feels stressed because they’re doing something wrong or behind a partner’s back.

  • pmvinespmvines
    edited June 10

    I mean , some people just don't want karma it's not necessarily that deep. lt doesn't always mean they are hiding from anything. I've had people tell me they think it's silly makes them feel like a product and that it reduces human connection to a yelp review, while others have said they don't want it to seem like they are playing favorites. Others have said they simply don't feel it's anybody else's business who they meet with and that it makes the experience seem weird. Then you have the opposite of that where some people chase karma like it's a notch on their belts. Cuddling is about consent, and if someone says they prefer to not exchange then that's just part of the consent.

  • CuddleBug02uCuddleBug02u

    I've had clients ask me to not leave karma or tell me they won't leave me any because they "don't want to be tracked" and that may be legitimate because they are partnered or also I have heard from multiple clients that they get an influx of messages from the people that we don't typically want to deal with on the site looking for "extras" wanting to know it what all we offer. Pretty gross. I even had one of my clients comment that after he left me Karma he was going to deactivate his profile for a while to avoid that. And then of course I have the more nervous clients that don't like the anxiety it causes to write it or have random ppl looking at their profile from the karma they leave me.

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