How many Pros would prefer to be held as opposed to having only your arms wrapped around your client. Touch or be touched? Or maybe you prefer a mutual kind of squeeze.
I enjoy mutual cuddles both holding and being held but if my client needs to just be held, I am there for them. If they want to just hold me, I am there for them. 🫂🤗🫂
I actually believe holding someone is to be held simultaneously. It is also the best in releasing the happy hormones we need.
I prefer to have no less than 3 feet distance between me and my cuddle friend at all times myself
Mutual cuddles are ideal.
Mutual holding is my fav - not necessarily the whole session, but I love a long mutual holding - feels like that's the best at releasing happy hormones too.
Depends on the pro. If I am paying them, and they are giving me a low energy/low effort session, I am usually so put off that I feel no interest in providing a reciprocal embrace. Fortunately, this has been extremely rare in my experience.
Some people that just happens naturally with, and that's wonderful. I try to ask what type of cuddling would be ideal.
I'm all about my cuddler but prefer mutual for sure 🫂
Mutual cuddles are my favorite 🥰
I love to be held also but I always start out holding them (unless they don’t like that). I ask right from the start what feels best to them. Mutual cuddles are awesome but I’m happy to do the most if that’s what a client needs.
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@pmvines Ahh, semi social distance cuddling...Cool, I can dig it! 😎😆👍
Its been awhile. But I prefer telekinesis cerebro amplified cuddles from 10am until 2pm Bali time zone only. Somewhat of a Virtual Virtuoso
@Uccello I love to be held really tight. The tighter the squeeze the better! There is something about being locked in a really tight hug, you can just forget all your troubles and leave this planet temporarily! I have had cuddlers worried they will break my ribs, I assure them that It has never happened and I willing to take that risk. Lol 🤣
@penguin34 when I see your name I at first think it’s penguinz0
Being a pro cuddler my sessions are definitely geared towards what my client enjoys. There tends to be 3 types. One that likes to be held and cuddled but doesn't reciprocate, one that doesn't like to be held and cuddled but enjoys doing so to me and my favorite ...when it's mutual cuddling.
I've heard from. Alot of people lately how disappointed they've been with their pro cuddlers just wanting to lay there.
It's very important to have these conversations prior to booking someone so y'all know you're on the same page.
@MeltMyWay true words. I have had a cuddler who literally wanted to lay in silence. Hand lightly on their chest or head or something. I kept thinking through the session that maybe I was doing something "wrong' by not being more proactive. He assured me that it was exactly the way he likes cuddles sessions to go ! 🤷 Everyone has their preference I guess.
I think it varies from person to person, but for me, I enjoy a mutual kind of cuddle. I like giving comfort and receiving it. Sometimes that means being held, sometimes it means holding someone else, and sometimes it naturally shifts back and forth throughout the session. The best cuddle sessions are the ones where both people feel relaxed, comfortable, and connected rather than focusing on one specific position the whole time.