"What do you do during a session" grifters

cancermoon97cancermoon97
edited June 23 in General

Grifters, scammers, I see you. You know you're never going to cuddle and ask people "what do you do when cuddling" as if to siphon energy and get people to waste their time. I have yet to be wrong about these certain "question askers" that want to discuss everything before the session! Obviously there are some that are genuinely curious and that is why I will never let the bad actors sway me on being so open to discuss cuddle positions, pajamas I'm wearing etc. Just know that I'm automatically assuming you're not going to meet with me and you just want to play 100 Questions until proven otherwise. This site really makes you question the morality of some people!

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  • pmvinespmvines

    @cancermoon97

    I hear what you're saying . But the question remains . What do you do when you're cuddling ? Like really, I don't know what I'm doing here or even what cuddling is please help me 😂

  • SafeSnugglesOrlSafeSnugglesOrl

    I feel like a lot of them are asking a sexual question

  • SafeSnugglesOrlSafeSnugglesOrl

    I started using generic responses like cuddle and talk🤣

  • cancermoon97cancermoon97

    @pmvines 😂😂see I know if I'm ever in Birmingham I can meet you!

  • cancermoon97cancermoon97

    @SafeSnugglesOrl thats exactly what it is. I'm going to stop taking the bait from now on

  • great_pillow08great_pillow08

    @SafeSnugglesOrl They ABSOLUTELY A-R-E!!!

  • pmvinespmvines

    @cancermoon97

    You gonna bring me a graph and notes on what to do when we cuddle? Holding you to it ! I need as much help with this foreign concept as humanly possible 😆

    Also somewhat adjacent are the multitude of "but what happens if I get a boner" questions

  • Love2Hug222Love2Hug222

    They are asking a sexual question tbh..i tell them we can do a massage, the can be comfortable, i have drinks here, food..i just try to meke my clients comfortable

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne
    edited June 22

    @cancermoon97
    If anyone asks you a lot of personal questions that feel disrespectful, just weird, if they ask too much about what you wear, positions etc, report them! Those are the ones who will likely push boundaries, intending to demand something against TOS, non-platonic. If it feels creepy to you, then do yourself and all of us a favor and report them.
    Adding, it’s against the rules/and a TOS violation for a pro to offer massage since most men will expect to be undressed for a massage. It could get you banned. It’s a good idea to review the rules you agreed to.

  • trysdettrysdet

    Well I was lucky enough to meet a wonderful woman who was very open and outgoing and make me feel comfortable and show me her favorite cuddles. She told me many people were shy and only lay on back and hold hands laying several feet away. Im not saying there are not grifters. But it's a new thing for lot of people

  • cuddlefaerycuddlefaery

    Vague, low-effort questions get vague, low-effort answers. Sometimes playing dumb can let them tie their own ban noose.

  • HuggablesoupHuggablesoup

    Well, maybe this is why I'm having a hard time finding a cuddle session. Everyone in this thread seems to know what the OP is talking about but I don't get it. I am genuinely a curious guy. As I am a people pleaser as well, I tend to be over cautious about getting things right and ask too many questions. Also, it is well known that the ban hammer comes easily here, so I am also over worried about getting someone in trouble. I'll try to tone down the number of questions, but I just don't see how asking is an immediate red flag.

  • KatotaKatota

    "What do you do during a session"

    Cuddle. That's it! 😊

    Vague, low-effort questions get vague, low-effort answers.

    👍👍👍👍👍👍

    @cuddlefaery Yep, they sure do! 😊👍

  • marcustanakamarcustanaka

    @Huggablesoup Matthew Hussey (dating coach) said it best. Women get hit on the most by the 10% of men who are fearless and have no class. The advice is reasonable from @cancermoon97's perspective. She (and every pro on this site) have men who have no intention of booking wasting her time with pointless interaction.

    While you or I might have valid questions before booking, it would be better to avoid the typical boorish behavior of these guys. Endless questions about every detail of a cuddle before booking and online MIGHT show an interest in non-platonic activity. Show serious interest by talking over the phone or a zoom call. Read the comments from the other women and use the advice to make booking sessions a lot easier.

  • cancermoon97cancermoon97

    @pmvines its almost like they keep asking the same questions because they want you to change your answer 🤔

  • cancermoon97cancermoon97
    edited June 23

    @trysdet I'm all for explaining favorite positions and what to expect. However people seem to get the full picture of the cuddle when you describe it to them in detail. It's comforting enough to not want the real thing. These are the kind of people that don't go to the theaters in person if the movie is on streaming. And they're pirating that stream. There's a fine line between discussing details before an in person cuddle and what cuddle comfort now classifies as "virtual cuddling". I truly believe these grifters want free virtual cuddles. If you're following through with cuddles or at least giving someone the courtesy of saying you're no longer interested in showing up, this post does not apply to you.

  • trysdettrysdet

    Oh ok thank you. I have upcoming cuddle schedule in person and some pending. I don't really understand virtual cuddle but if it works for other that's cool it's an option

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod

    @trysdet a virtual cuddle is the same as using Facetime or Zoom. It's a fancy name for a video call.

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