Im new here so i dont know alot, but someone asked if i do have any clothing requirements and i wasn't sure. Do most people have clothing requirements and if so what is it typically?
The rules state that both parties must remain fully clothed.
Many women specify in their profiles that boxers do not count as clothing, and that men must wear lounge shorts, pajama pants, basketball shorts, etc. Apparently too many have tried to show up with open-fly boxers. 🤢
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Just adding that for men, they must wear underwear under whatever pants they wear. If they show up in jeans and want to take them off and wear only underwear or boxers, that’s not legal here so it’s best to be very clear about the 2 layers when you explain clothing requirements. They will have to cuddle in jeans if they don’t bring pj pants or other comfy pants. Maybe a Mod can clarify what is required for women? I know that a tank top with bra under is fine. I was once told 2 layers, top and bottom for women. I believe the clothing rules are written somewhere, I’m not sure where I read them.
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/terms/client-service-agreement
Both parties will remain clothed the entire session. Undergarments do not constitute as sufficient clothing. If either party needs to change clothing this will be done in private and out of sight of the other party. If a Client shows off areas normally covered by undergarments purposely, the Cuddler has the right to end the session immediately.
Same rules for everyone, whether pro provider, client or enthusiast. To spell it out, the minimum clothing requirement is a tank top and shorts with appropriate undergarments for each person. To spell it out further, that means men may not go shirtless.
Anyone asking what your clothing requirements are is someone likely looking to do something that's against the rules that you, as a newbie, may not be aware of. Lots of the time the ones asking the question want to cuddle in boxers, which as stated above is specifically against the rules.
The answer to the question should always be, "my clothing requirements are the same as the site clothing requirements."
if so what is it typically?
To be FULLY CLOTHED is MY only clothing requirement! 😊
Of course, if one doesn't know (or comprehend) what FULLY CLOTHED mean, then clearly platonically cuddling with that particular one is out of the question. 😌
The only clothing requests I have ever accepted are for allergies or sensory issues - and they don't involve exposing more skin. I know someone who is allergic to polyester, so I make sure to wear 100% cotton around them. I myself am allergic to latex, so some rubber/elastic materials can be problematic (I'm looking at you, exposed elastic bra straps 😂). One of my partners has some extreme sensory issues and can't stand zippers or seams. But switching fabric content or textures doesn't mean showing more skin.
If they're asking for more skin contact, they're either not compatible or seeking sexual contact. I made a point to stop wearing shorts to cuddle because too many wandering hands got the wrong idea. I mostly cuddle in leggings now 🤷🏻♀️
"I'm allergic to some fabrics, so I need you to wear less of them" is actually a line that has been used in different phrasings 🙄🤦🏻♀️ don't fall for it.
Huh? Yes you have to wear clothes but a suit and tie is a bit overdressed.
Wearing my wetsuit wasn’t particularly comfortable. Although, I haven’t tried cuddling in my kilt (shorts underneath). All in jest of course.
It doesn’t take much to get soft pajama shorts and a light athletic shirt. I find that to be the most comfortable for me. If a cuddler can’t do that much, then it’s not a good match. I do appreciate when a cuddler posts on their profile their requirement. It takes the guessing out of the equation. It also lets you know if a client/enthusiast has actually read your profile. I remember reading one profile that required socks because they don’t like feet, and I felt that was a reasonable accommodation.
I think of what I would wear to bed if I was on a business trip and sharing a hotel with a colleague. Covered but comfortable. Hmmm… is that considered business casual?
I'm actually allergic to all fabrics. I need to be in a full latex gimp suit and need the same from you. Also latex sheets and pillows. Shouldn't be too hard, right?
@JustAGuy215 sounds like an EpiPen and ER visit 😂
I have heard this quite a bit... Along the lines of 'I need a shower to freshen up but I don't have clothes to change into" guess who has everything in my house ? boxers, men's p"pjs, socks, you name it! I have got it. Lessons learnt. Just bring yourself 😅
As a man, I'm not super comfortable with changing clothes at someone else's house. There is no way to be certain that there will be a private area to change and I definitely wouldn't change in front of someone. I recently found some Under Armour light weight hiking pants. They are thin, soft and cool like pajamas, but they look like regular pants. Those and a t shirt and I'm good to go.
My suit of armor, though a bit cumbersome, is nice and cool and shiny. Has made for a good conversation starter.
Velour two piece.with a fedora , neutral colors
How fedorable...
Thank you for this forum, this is very helpful information...most of it anyway LOL.
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I also leave on my heals if I haven't had a recent pedi, and detangler gloves for stroking the hair
I actually do have a clothing request in my profile, asking that the cuddler choose soft clothing items. Have had pros who wanted to cuddle in blue jeans - not conducive to relaxing.
@cuddlefaery Wow! 😲
Seriously? My response to that would've been...
"Dude, I am allergic to bullshit so we ain't going to be cuddling at all. 😏 Seriously, I don't want to break out in bullshit hives hugged up with you! 😵💫😫🤒 Have e a nice day and good luck! 👍"
Unbelievable. 😌
@Katota You should make a compilation of your responses to ridiculous questions and sell them as templates. They're so apropos!!
@BlueIris Lol. Much appreciated, Iris. 😁
Of course I will just block after that response or hopefully Dudebro will block me WITHOUT the typical "fat and ugly" farewell. 😏😁
I always wear leggings, a tee shirt and socks lmao. I’ve had some interesting requests. -overalls, wearing a choker, cosplays, sundresses, skirts, crop tops. I never entertain clothing requests, and see it a bit insulting as if I’m a doll to be made up. I’m trying to be comfy and cozy and I know what works best for me. Having sensitivity to zippers or scents are more reasonable Forsure. As for men everyone pretty much answered that already.
For a pretty good while back about 5 years ago there was a guy who would post about his obsession with cardigan sweaters, and would insist that his cuddle pros wear them. If they didn't have one of their own he would supply it. He was eventually banned but it sure took them long enough lol
there was a guy who would post about his obsession with cardigan sweaters
Ah, cardigans are a problem. They spread earworms.
I had a cardigan once but it had static shock. The store replaced it free of charge.
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@BlueIris thank you so much, i replied as you suggested that the clothing requirements are same as the ones in the site rules and he never messaged back so i think you are right about what you said