Why dont we all just wear cuddle uniforms lol
@Navyman1010 I actually just finally ordered t-shirts with my business logo on them to wear for cuddles. It definitely will make things easier to have a "uniform" ;-)
Well said @CreativeCuddles BUT the thread is about PHOTOS and their intent, not clothing choices. @DeathbyChocolat chill woman.
@Navyman1010 I already picked mine
If it wasn’t about clothing choices in the photos we would be discussing naked pics people choose.
@ubergigglefritz I know they will be to promote , will you wear with cuddles? That’s a great idea esp if you do it full time and travel. Now you have to have Jammie pants or comfy shorts to go with it. But great idea!
@Catloaf you might have to fight @pmvines for that get up I think he already ordered it! ?
Lol i was just joking hahaha im not wearing no uniform lol and i actually like when women I cuddle with dress up nice, Ive bad experiences with a pro coming over to cuddle with me after getting off a fast food job!!! Smelling like french fries
Hmm, maybe @pmvines can do a duo cuddle with me where he gets the Hazmat suit, and I'll go Hungarian sheepskin for some positive reinforcement:
@Navyman1010 I would certainly make an exception to somebody smelling like french fries and oil if they snuck me a giant paper bag of them after their shift... My first job was at a hot dog and fry place, and then years later I managed a pizza arcade...the smell of pizza and frozen nuggets and wings is arguably worse imho!
@Navyman1010 you are wearing a uniform in your profile pic so that’s false advertisement ?
Now if someone came smelling like pizza and they didn’t bring me any there would be the wrath of Trina to deal with. ?
@CreativeCuddles Lmao!!!!
@Catloaf Looks like a human dust mop
@CreativeCuddles I will wear them for cuddle sessions also. My business focus is more on people with a genuine need for connection and healing, in addition to platonic touch. My ideal clients have never cared what I wear, and I am more comfortable with the vibe of my sessions when I am comfortable in a t-shirt rather than trying to "maximize skin-on-skin contact" like so many men on this site ask for. There is still plenty of skin between arms, lower legs, neck, face to get that oxytocin flowing
@Navyman1010 I knew you were joking, but in all seriousness, it is so much less stressful to have a "uniform", so I will be happy to have my cuddle shirts ready to go whenever I have a session
My ideal clients have never cared what I wear, and I am more comfortable with the vibe of my sessions when I am comfortable in a t-shirt rather than trying to "maximize skin-on-skin contact" like so many men on this site ask for.
@ubergigglefritz Amen amen amen. I have been asked a few times why I wore something particularly comfy, instead of something more "appealing" to my figure. Sheesh, dude. Isn't being comfortable enough to not think about superficial stuff like that what it's supposed to be about anyway? When your t-shirts come I hope we get to see them.
I’ve not seen any dodgy photos yet. Most I’ve come across have been a head and shoulder photo. I imagine sexy pics would result in dodgy guys messaging them, which I’m sure they’d prefer not to get.
@simontudley I think they may get caught so quickly by mods most of us never see them.
This right here is why I only do headshots and make sure none of my cleavage or anything like that is showing.... honestly it's hard enough on this site or any other site not to get inappropriate messages...why set yourself up for failure ladies?
@creativecuddles its MY opinion sorry to offend you
@DeathbyChocolat you didn’t offend me and yes we are all entitled to our own opinion. Thank you
So, are any of you reporting the photos of shirtless men or dudes flexing? Cause in my book, as a straight female, that's a guy being seductive. Everything FunCartel said is on point.
I'm sure some people would question my profile pic (which I'm wearing a bikini top cause I was on my way to the pool to swim for exercise--hate wearing one pieces cause they ride up my butt, so a bikini is the only thing that lets me move freely in the water). I cropped the photo and used it because I liked my smile in the image. I would've just let it be the whole image, but I know as a woman how stupidly people judge women by what they wear. I have to deal with this nonsense everyday, no matter where I go (work, out with friends, shopping for groceries, to the gym, etc.) and it doesn't matter what I wear (snowsuit, bikini, overalls, t-shirts, etc.), I still deal with stupid judgments from people who need to reflect on their own damn intentions, not mine. So I opted to crop--which no one should have to censor themselves to this degree. I did it just so I could maybe, maybe have one less idiot make a comment. But nope, ya'll still out there being judgmental. Lesson learned, just going to post what I want and destroy the internetz lmao!
But seriously, if a woman wears a burka she's a prude, a bikini, she's a whore. There's really no winning for us ladies. However dudes can have on tank tops with their nasty armpit hair hanging out, or have on sweatpants that show their package, and nobody hits "report" for that. (-_-)
@bluesgirl OH trust me, the members are pretty vigilant here and the Pauly D Boys (as I like to call them, especially if the pic includes duck face LOL) are caught out just as quick. We've got folks on here who are always watching the front page, and the people joining in their own cities. I've caught a few inappropriate profiles today who joined in my city thinking this is a sexual or hookup site obviously because of the pics posted, but then they write these really fake sincere profiles simultaneously. Image is everything and we take action on that for both guys and gals.
@Catloaf lol, that meme! But seriously, if the male users in these screengrabs were female, they'd be reported already. It's a horrible double standard.
Jesus, is that all in the same place? Your town? Hopefully you did report them, and I wouldn't have even blocked their names or locations so others can follow suit. To be honest, it was also easier when we had the 'Inappropriate Profiles' thread up too. No idea what happened to it or if it's even being used anymore.
that was just 5 minutes of me scrolling down through the search screen for males who cuddle females between the ages of 18-30 in any city... And that isn't every photo I saw that would fall under the "women did a bad thing wearing a bad thing" discussions in these forums, if their sex were changed to female.
complete double standard, cause if we're judging by intentions based on outfits (or lack thereof), definitely not platonic intentions.
@bluesgirl @Catloaf If I were to post shirtless and pantless photos of myself the intention would not be to be sexy, as I have a belly that Buddha himself would rub for good luck!
@bluesgirl - what is to stop you reporting these shirtless guys? I don't have a double-standard, I hardly ever look at men's profiles. They would be up to women to look at and report. If I did happen to see inappropriate male profiles, I'd report them the same as I would a female. And I would not consider a bikini top inappropriate, that's normal everyday wear for women in Arizona.
Hold on we need to come up with a new phrase besides "double standard" we now have over 50+ new gender combinations and i want everyone to be included
-dont hate me for my opinion-
I will say it again. I think its rude and stupid to judge a woman's intentions based solely on her photos. Unless she's licking her lips or pulling down her bra in the photo or otherwise acting in a suggestive manner there should not be a problem. Crop tops, tank tops, shorts, leggings, pajamas, onesies are all fine as long as the photograph is tasteful and not suggestive.
@Navyman1010 we won’t hate you as long as you wear a uniform!
@pmvines but you are a handsome and friendly Buddha and we wouldn’t change you! We love you just the way you are!
@PaulaDahla I actually don't own a selfie stick. I dont even like being in front of cameras in general since I originally started out as really overweight (like pushing 400 lbs big). I'm still learning how to be comfortable and usually for big girls " camera up, chin down" I still consider myself overweight and I do admit my chest does get in the way of pictures now. Not defending the picture but I don't usually like seeing myself anyways so its rare for me to have a picture of myself that I like. It is a bit hurtful but I take your comment in stride