@RadiantHugs Thank you for sharing your cathartic name change.
Childhood (and adult) trauma are part of the reason healing/good touch is so important.
Thank you for helping keep CC a safe space.
Bunch of karens
“Curvy” is one of the descriptors available for people to use to describe themselves. It would be odd to invite people to describe themselves this way but to then take offense at someone, including this information in their username.
@SoulSurvivor
CC: “Are you curvy?”
User: “Yeah I am.”
CC: “wtf how dare you” 😡
@SoulSurvivor good point! @Comet85 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@SoulSurvivor Yeah there are a couple on this thread that judge names like they are Joseph McCarthy. They would turn in WinnieThePooh because it might be a fecal fetish.
I don't think 'curvy' in a username is a red flag because it's often said in a body-positive way, rather than non-platonic signalling. But yes, there are plenty of examples of honorific and body-centric usernames that are a useful indication of a likely problematic account.
Well slap my ass and call me fecal mc stinky poops
I agree with @LilyAnneNova , @Jack_Joe and @SoulSurvivor 100%. @Comet85 that is hilarious!!!
Unless a username is egregiously over the line with porn or kink related terms (Mr. Grey, MagicMike, DallasDebbie or anything with XXX in it) people should mind their own business. It's not easy to come up with a clever, unique or attention-grabbing name.
Nothing wrong with calling yourself "curvy" or "BBW" or anything related to being fit or in shape, tall, short, whatever. People who are into fitness might connect better with others who are also into fitness. Some people might prefer to cuddle with "squishy" or "fluffy" people who enjoy too many snacks, like myself! 🤣🤣🤣
I went through the Terms & Conditions, Client Service Agreement and the Pro Cuddler Contract. There are definitive statements prohibiting racy profile pics as well as allusions to massage, kink, or "extras" in the profile content and plenty that prohibit inappropriate communication and behavior during cuddle sessions. However, there is not a single statement that defines acceptable usernames or prohibits any certain terms.
Perhaps one of the moderators can address this, but until such a statement is added, nothing in a username technically constitutes a TOS violation and is therefore not reportable.
I'm not a lawyer, but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night. 🤣🤣🤣
So much trouble you could get into on this site if your real name is Rod.
Hot Rod
Rodimus Prime
Rowdy Roddy Piper
Rod Stiffington? 🤣🤣🤣
🙋♀️ I'm one with a name that I had no idea the connotations. I've used it for years when I first started gaming as a teen, on my original Xbox 🤭. My hair is brown and Chestnut is the best description of my natural hair color. My parents, and then most of my childhood friends, called me Bunny because of being so short I had to jump to reach anything. I despise the connotation of a bunny being connected to Playboy Bunnies. 🙄
"Examples I made up off the top of my head... MrSirStud MasterNightWolf - ifykyk CurvyLady4u CurvyAmanda0486 GymBro21"
Hey haha yeah, MrSirStud is a bit pushing it, doesnt't he ?
A young man who loves gym, nothing wrong with a GymBro21
I looked up a potential " secret meaning of 0486 at the end of CurvyAmanda0486, and I only found that 486 means " I love you" in Korean
Haha, love the "shrug shoulders " @MomInShaMan
@MattCuddleBear I had to laugh when I saw your comment regarding the bear part of your username. I hadn't even considered that when I created mine. While yes, I suppose my body type might fit the term, I'm actually using part of the name of the forge my family run, its nothing big mostly demos at different events in the region
@MollyCuddle there's no secret meaning to 0486. At least there wasn't when I wrote it. In order to ask my question and get unbiased feedback I held back some info about the specific names.
I tried to cast a wide net when I listed a few to ask about. Because I can't call out any specific users I had to make them up.
MrSirStud - Intended for this to be a little silly but also could see this as pushing boundaries on appropriate conventions. GymBro21 - Personally I guess I just kind of associated that in my own head with a bunch of shirtless pics. Probably should've picked "Muscle" something or other instead. Wasn't a great example. In a scientific study we'd say this one was a poorly phrased inquiry.
The reason for the two instances of Curvy was to ask about what I see as a difference between the two I listed. With the addition of the "4u" at the end I feel there's connotation there. The username is selling the aspect. The other one CurvyAmanda0486 is someone using it more as a general descriptor and there have been a TON of users it seems who append numbers at the end of their name. Even I did it years ago.
I don't think anyone would choose a "gymbro" name, but I can't say for sure. I can see people using it thinking it might impress someone. More likely, they'd probably have some variation of "fit" in their name or other ways to (not so) subtly say they go to the gym regularly.
"I'mSuchACurvyGroovyGymBroGuy" ... hm, what else can I add in there?
@Jubal "4U"
Thank you to whoever mentioned I could change my name.
I think that if we’re listing body types and descriptions in the “about me” section then anything that isn’t explicit should be relatively acceptable. CurvyGurl61616 or whatever is acceptable. BigD*ckBoy6161 would not be. Just how I see it. Also, why can’t someone accentuate/boast on physical beauty/attributes and not still be platonic. A lot here seem to think that any type of physical attraction or promotion means the person can’t be platonic which isn’t true.
@colinsc31 Why are you posting my Only Fans name? Which name it is is a mystery that I will leave to speculators.
@SnuggleFroggie An interesting thing to note about changing your username is that references to it are not updated in prior forum posts or Karma reviews.
If the site allowed the name, let it be. Allow the mods to police it from that point.
@AmazingEmbrace the trouble is, the mods don’t “police” like that. They respond to reports. The site will “allow” you to enter anything. Unless the profile is reported the mods won’t know it’s there unless they also happen to randomly come across it. Which given the number of people on here is unlikely.
And in addition to what @mauvefox wrote, I read that there are nearly 700,000 members on CC worldwide and maybe 10 mods who might rotate their work here among each other. They are unpaid volunteers - have other jobs and responsibilities (obviously just like the members) so how on earth could they spend time randomly browsing for badly behaved members? Their time is spent responding to reports. It takes only a few seconds for us to report someone who’s breaking the rules so it really helps the community to report them and the mods will review. Yet many people don’t report but they come to the forum to complain.
Now this got me thinking of names I could change mine to with maybe a reference to this current username. just some ideas:
There are definitely ways to get a feel based on word combos, filled out vs non-filled out profiles, wording and other nuances to tell if there's something worth reporting. Is it 100% accurate? No of course not, but I think the site admin and mods say to err on the side of better to report than say nothing. That being said I don't seem to often find the need to report people myself as the ones I might report often get banned or something changes before I get the chance to. The only profiles I seem to be able to report quickly are the ones that are untagged pros who have wording of sessions or charging without being a pro. This would not be possible without everyone that does report and are vigilant.