You would ask for a consulting fee?
Sometimes I look at profiles more than once and reread everything they posted.. Double check every karma that's been posted by clients that have seen them so I can have somewhat of an idea of what a session with them might be like.... Sometimes the pros I've seen before will have a calendar stating when they're free so I'll check to see if it's been updated.. If they put up some new pics like a new profile pic I'll check on it and sometimes it's just me trying to make up my mind whether or not I want to see this person for the first time or I want to see them again..
@BlueIris this makes sense to me. Thanks for sharing this perspective.
Can only speak to my experience as a newcomer… focusing on professionals and their profiles seemed like a good way to learn about the rules of the site, and the etiquette of the larger cuddle community… As I have taken time to be intentional and thoughtful in starting conversations and building connections in my relatively large local community (Chicagoland), it can be hard to remember all the preferences for each cuddler. It never crossed my mind that it might be construed as stalking to frequently visit their profile if I wasn’t trying to communicate. I’m just trying to be respectful of their time. But I appreciate all the comments in this thread so I can better understand everyone’s perspective. Thank you! 🙏💛