I’m back but not sure how to feel about it

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edited September 3 in General

Have you ever hugged someone and felt warmth flowing between you both? Just a steady energy of peace, love and appreciation for humanity?

On the other hand .. cuddling with the wrong person who doesn’t respect boundaries or doesn’t have good energy to return you can leave you depleted.

In a sense cuddling is an exchange of safety.. it’s like saying, “hey, I know the world is hard but around me you can relax; you don’t have to hold your breath.

These are my thoughts.

  1. I’ve never tried cuddling with someone from this site but I would!24 votes
    1. I really miss cuddling alot
      37.50%
    2. Cuddling is my stress reliever
      62.50%

Comments

  • TxTomTxTom

    Have you ever hugged someone and felt warmth flowing between you both?

    That sounds like great ad copy for a Depend® underwear commercial.

    But to answer your question, I experience a tremendous sense of calm while cuddling.

  • parrotheadparrothead

    I've cuddled from this site... The same person multiple times, it was very nice

  • ksb30ksb30

    I've cuddled from this site too and had the good and the bad. I love to exchange stories with other cuddlers of experiences. I have had one now that I've been with for some time and its been great!

  • Eddie1968Eddie1968

    As a former massage therapist and someone who knows the value of healing touch. I can say this. Those who have the negative vibe are the ones most needed help. You must ground yourself, using the bed as a grounding force. So you do not have to use your own energy when cuddling someone like that. Put a "white light" around you. Being a cuddler you will meet people who are energy vampires. I usually just ask God to protect me with the white light and I also ask him to help repair/ heal that person.

  • MeltMyWayMeltMyWay

    @Eddie1968 thank you for that reminder. I try to put energetic protection around myself but often times forget about my surroundings ... and now that I'm hosting more often than not, that's probably even more important. I think I'm going to start a new thread about self protection in an energetic sense, as to not derail the O.P.'s original post.

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