Has anyone ever been asked to cuddle in a car before? I received this request but its a hard no for me for safety reasons. Anyone?
Yes, and there are pros that offer that option. But to get in the vehicle of a stranger is a dangerous proposition and can be creepy in many instances. There was an older guy that frequented the forums who used to talk about his truck or van he had decked out for cuddles and was incredulous when so many women said they wouldn’t set foot in it. Good for the women who said hell to the no. Safety is always priority one for all parties involved and a moving vehicle is the number one requirement for an abduction. So whether someone offers it or not, I think trust needs to be fully established before anything remotely like car cuddles occurs if ever.
Not in a million years should you entertain this request.
Thank you for confirming !
Car cuddling is exhausting.
I would never allow that with someone I didn't know and trust. And yes I've been asked.
I know I’ve heard a couple pros talk about cuddling in their cars. I definitely wouldn’t get into someone else’s vehicle, but maybe if I had a car that was comfy enough? I’d love to hear opinions from a pro who uses her own vehicle.
I’m always curious about public cuddling. It sounds more complicated to plan.
Not that I can recall
@7gem I saw what you did there.
Only car cuddled when a public cuddle had an unexpected downpour. Would never offer as an option.
"Let's cuddle in the trunk! You go first."
But seriously, unless meeting with someone you already know and trust, cuddling in a vehicle is far too risky a proposition.
Definitely a good way to possibly finding yourself later than night having to place the lotion in the basket.
Not yet but I wouldn’t do it makes yourself too vulnerable for something to happen
I thought cuddling in the back seat of a luxury SUV was a safe option for public cuddles. What am I missing?🤔
Here is the exception:
I can't speak for others, but for myself, it brings back some awful memories, so it's a definite no. Also, it gives the vibe that the person doesn't want to pay for a hotel . I have had cuddlers that pay for a nice hotel, pay in advance for meals, bring me gifts etc. I know my worth and "settling" for a car cuddle wouldn't be in line with keeping the standards that i have for myself. 😌
@Coralm It’s not the type of car but the stranger you will cuddle with that’s the concern.
What is the huge deal? So going to a hotel with a stranger or going to a strangers house is safe but the back seat of a large suv is somehow dangerous?
Come on....
a hotel has other people in it. it is also a stable location that i can give to my safety person. even a house is a stable location although i don't go to other people's private residences anymore for a first time.
a car, is by it's very nature, mobile. You can be incapacitated and moved to a new location easily. I'm hoping the concierge desk would say something if someone tried to carry me out of there unconscious.
car is a big nope for me for someone I don't know very very well. It's also generally uncomfortable to cuddle in a car.
I have refused to cuddle in a semi. I have said yes to cuddling in a RV.
Parad0x: one thing about the trunk, put her in the trunk along with your dog and the dog will be thrilled to see you when you open it. (from an old joke)
@tranquilheart public cuddling does take a little more planning, however I've had a few wonderful cuddle sessions in a park on blankets with pillows and one movie theater cuddle session.
I have yet to see a house or hotel suddenly start their engine and speed away. Then again I live a sheltered life.
I have done a few car cuddles in larger SUV. Twice was in their cars and I did ask to hold the keys for the session. I had met them before and was fairly comfortable. The 3rd I had borrowed my brother's suv when I was visiting him in Denver. We met for the session near where I was staying and my safety person knew where I was and I kept my location on.
I've had scarier instances in a motel and in someone's home before.
Regardless of where the cuddle is you need to do your research and be smart and safe.
What iF the LAW get the WRONG IDEA & things your doing something that’s TYPICALLY ILLEGAL especially in a car & now you have something to explain & run into trouble. If they want to do car cuddle might as well do public like on a park bench or a blanket under a tree like a pic nic. If they only have a car to offer to cuddle then they need to spend that cuddle fee working on a more reasonable location for privacy.
Joking about locking a woman in your trunk is EXACTLY why we are averse to car cuddles. 😬
Who in their right mind would do a car cuddle?
I've done a few car cuddles. Notably, 1 with a pro and the other with a friend who I've known and cuddle with before.
It's definitely less comfortable than a hotel room or anything like that. But with someone you vibe with, it can be nice. We found a nice spot in a public park. Saw a few trains pass by, spotted a couple of satellites and just looked up at the stars from the moon roof. In some situations, it's convenient but usually not very comfortable. I get being wary of it. Definitely would need to trust the other person on some level.
@cuddleMeegz exactly! I don't have a criminal record and I would like to keep it that way. 😜
I had a car cuddle and we had met for the first time. She had come down to visit her family from Nova Scotia. I picked her up from her sisters house. Then we drove around chatting away. Finally parked in a quiet place n cuddled for the next 4 hours. The car was fogged completely. lol. It was beautiful n both of us met afterwards a few more times before she returned back home. Amazing isn’t it when you put fear away n put trust in…. I think Canada is still very very safe.
Have done it, open to it. Sometimes maybe neither party can host, but you vibe and want to meet. Caveat for me: for a pro, not at full price.