Has anyone tried to book a session with an ex or had an ex try to book a session with them?
Unless you're on good terms, it's not a good idea. You also want to be careful because it could start to feel stalkerish.
That seems like a very weird thing unless you're on really good terms but if they need to book a session with you it doesn't seem like that is the case
If I were to see an ex on here, they’d be blocked ngl 😂. I’ll never possess the level of maturity required to keep in contact with an ex. But I’m so curious, why do you ask?
I'm sure anyone I've seen is an ex . Just not my ex so it's fine
As far as I know, I have no ex on this site. But if one random one shows up and tries to book a session it would not be weird for me. I think maybe just one ex would be an issue but the rest are good friends to me still. Like gave an ex a ride to surgery just last month and helped walk him inside his room to lay down when we got back home. The hospital people walked him to my car first and helped him get in but then was me helping after. Was no big deal or any arguments either. He even paid me for my help too. So eh it's whatever. Theyre an ex and now a friend for a reason anyway. But yeah if they are not a friend then best not to agree to a cuddle because you know they can't be trusted or be respectful.
But I do have 2 cuddlers on here and actual clients on here whom I knew before this site. And as I said I knew them before this site and now we just cuddle. Was a little weird at first but eh no big deal eithier. Just work for me, really. One I started cuddling after he joined here and so we booked on here before he moved away. The other we cuddled from another place and he joined here too. So he is a client too and is here just we cuddle on another site where the cuddling first started.
I could see a disgruntled ex with no boundaries like a narcissist type trying to book with an ex if they happened to offer services on here. My advice for the pro would be to immediately block and report
Now for me, I'm on good terms with most of my exes and if they wanted to book me for a cuddle, I would be up for it. 🤷♀️🤗🫂
@Ruby14 You asked why I asked.
In a private message, a pro cuddler asked for my photo "to confirm you are not my ex." I'm sure she was joking, but it made me laugh at the thought of trying to book an ex for a cuddle session.
So I just thought it would make a fun forum topic, that's all. I've never done it, so please don't ban me! 😀
I cuddle people I used to be romantically entangled with all the time. My exes are awesome people. Not for money though. I guess if they were really going through it and needed extra support and wanted to compensate me for my time I miiiiiiight? I don't know. case by case basis.
there are some people I've dated who I can't be that close with, just am not willing to do it, professionally nor enthusiastically.
my friend calls his exes Love Legends.. he always says ex is a harsh word. I usually just call them friends.
Lmfaooo I had my popcorn ready, my feet kicked up, waiting for this to go a completely different direction. And I’m surprised so many pple would be open to cuddling with an ex. Would you personally be open to it? I want to know if, maybe, I’m the… problem? 🤣
What could go wrong 😅
I'm on great terms with most of my exes. My ex fiance is still my best friend even though it's been 11 years since we called it off. I still would be extremely hesitant to cuddle them. Particularly if I or them were acting as a pro for the session. And I'm saying this despite having platonically cuddled more than one of my ex partners, though none of us were pros at the time.
Even being on great terms with an ex, it can be a slippery slope to slide into old patterns of behaviors and emotions. Combined with the physical and emotional intimacy of cuddling, the risk of mixed signals is really high. And then if you add in the inherent power dynamic shift with one acting on a professional capacity, it's a recipe for one or both to come out hurt, or at the very least confused.
If I were to consider cuddling with an ex, we'd have an extremely in-depth conversation on boundaries before hand, and emotional check-ins throughout. Either one of us would need to be able to step back at any time. And we'd need to have a debrief conversation a few days later to see how we're feeling after the fact.
I treasure my friendships with my exes too much to risk losing them over mixed feelings over cuddling. There are plenty of other people I or they can cuddle with, without the emotional baggage and muscle memory to trigger. If we mutually decide we'd like to take a trip down memory lane and cuddle out of genuine desire to reconnect rather than need from lack of touch, sure, we could discuss it. But if either one of us were rebounding or particularly vulnerable, I wouldn't go there then.
@theHugAlchemist Wow. I'd love to be your next ex. 😉
😬😬😬😬😬 Yikes on a bike
@Ruby14 I, too, was wondering how the topic came about and was waiting on the tea. 😂😂😂
There is no universe I would cuddle any of my ex's if they were on the site for a multitude of reasons. Outside of the site, if an ex wanted to talk and that led to cuddling, that's one thing.
If they called because they were going through something and wanted to come over and needed some emotional support... depending on the ex, the status of our existing relationship/friendship, and the nature of the breakup... I would potentially be there for them.
I would rather count the grains of sand at the beach than to have an ex contact me through this site. 😫😫😫
You do know what they call a relaxing cuddle session with an ex?
@CaramelNotes FINALLY, SOMEONE GETS ME 😭😂. I was reading these responses wondering if I needed to schedule some serious self reflection. You actually made me realize there’s a distinction I wasn’t making. If an ex and I was on decent terms and genuinely needed emotional support, and contacted me outside of the site, I could see myself being there for them. But an ex finding me on here and trying to book a cuddle session with me?? Not a chance unless they saw me first. And when I see that first message… blocked🤣. Please reach out to another pro.
I agree with you @Ruby14. I’d find it very uncomfortable to reach out to an ex on here for cuddling.
@Hugme2026 that’s what I’m saying. Like I know you have my contact info and even address.
I'd report them and show the site my proof that these people are dangerous 😳 get off get off get off 🚩❌️🚨🙅♀️🚫👎⚠️ But then what if they say he hasn't violated the site rules so they stick around 😱 yeah, I'd block them. Kukuyyy
Don’t do it. I’d find it weird. An ex is an ex for a reason.
Yes, I have had someone that I've dated before book me. However, it wasn't someone that I ever had a physical relationship with, we simply went on some dates before. He heard about the site from me. He's a great guy, and it isn't weird at all for me. He has always been 100% respectful of me, regardless of whether it was on a date or in a session. As long as I trust someone to respect me and the rules of the session, I'll book with them.
My exes would never!
I cant see that going good in any shape, way or form. An ex is an ex for a reason. I've been divorced for almost 14 years and I get along well with my ex-wife, the kids mom, heck I even gave her a place to stay when she found herself in a bad situation she had to get out of. But not once has the thought of doing anything ever crossed my mind.
@CaramelNotes I agree 😬
@CuddlesToGo even said as a joke, this is inappropriate bordering on concerning. This is not a dating site, and hitting on women here is likely to get you reported and banned in quick order.
I like remaining on good terms with my exes and I'm glad @theHugAlchemist does too.
Ok, the prize goes to @TheFunCartel 😂
My ex was the reason my last pro account got deactivated 🙄 but I'm glad to be back 😉✨️
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@Carrie_Anne Thank you!
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