I normally am for the men in the conversation and don't care to dog pile anyone. Peace love and keep it real. But @MikeSugs my goodness. 🤡 I don't dig it.
@MKultra79 firstly, completely baffled (yet not surprised) how someone could read your personal, sincere & heartfelt inquiry + attempt to connect with other humans and turn the spotlight onto themself + their own brazen insecurities. watch out for swerving clown cars on this site, as you know there are plenty of em🤡💩
secondly, I too came on here after battling cancer (second time) + losing a close partner and in hopes of regulating the nervous system + stress levels. you are such a trooper. I completely admire you for turning pro + holding space for others in attempts to ground & heal yourself as well. that's beautiful✨ i stand with what others have said before me. definitely keep the wordage bold on your page...you can always point to that. use what you can to filter out the gremlins though it's definitely not ON you; they're not going anywhere as more and more keep joining and fleeing the site. just know that you are offering something very special and protect your peace + space as you do your health. thank you for sharing with us🫶🏻
@MikeSugs I'm not going to dog pile but I am going to offer some advice.
You said something that was hurtful and offensive.
Multiple people have pointed it out.
It seems as though it might have hurt your feelings, as you are now posting sad faces.
Most folks are not going to have any sympathy for you based on your comment and then your follow-up responses.
I think you will get a better outcome by actually taking accountability for your words and actions, looking at how it impacted people, and apologizing.
Best
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I feel this deeply. I have stage three heart failure, and trying to survive on disability by myself is a joke. I did pretty well here the first few weeks.. but more than half even back then cancelled because I don’t do skin to skin or allow boxers or do more. I keep thinking that this is a cuddle site not a kink site or sex site. Now most won’t even get back to me after they cancel . Is something wrong with my profile? I mean I do this for the cuddle and the money, but I love platonic touch so much. I thought this site was the one to come to get that.
@MKultra79 I advocate for families nationally to meet basic needs including medical expense. I wanted to share a user friendly resource: https://findhelp.org/
@AuthenticLucy thank you kindly for sharing CrowdHealth. My colleagues and I have never heard of it before, will add it to my list of resources.
I appreciate and love how supportive this community is.
@MKultra79 with the exception of one individual, I am glad to hear all the positive reinforcement you received, but I know it doesn’t nullify your struggles. So please, I encourage you to return when you need a boost, some advice, or a virtual hug from afar. The world is a challenging place, now more than ever, and asking for support and friendship is a necessity when you are dealt a bad hand. I think I speak for many here when I say we hear you and we are here for you.
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