Cuddle Comfort activity trending downward?

baxter89456baxter89456
in General

Is it me, or has cuddle comfort begun to become the MySpace of cuddle websites? It seems like the a lot of pros are going to that other site because CC lays down overly strict punishments/inconveniences on pro cuddlers. There are so many pros that are sweet well-intentioned people that end up on the banned list and they don’t come back because the probationary punishment period that should be days is weeks. I’m not a pro but the pros are the lifeblood of this site—I think they should be given a degree of grace when it comes to rule violations and expedited setting up accounts and extra security protection (maybe blocking certain IP addresses and maybe taking down retaliatory reviews.). I appreciate the mods but the mods are not the center of this community-the pro cuddlers are. If you all don’t work to appease your pro cuddlers more this whole community is going to continue to dry up as it has been lately and this we’ll be the fault of the mods and policy makers

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  • ProfHermesProfHermes

    @baxter89456 I’m not seeing what you’re seeing. Care to elaborate on why you think Pros are inconvenienced by the mods and are leaving? I’m seeing more pros and the mods are actually here to protect them.

  • mauvefoxmauvefox

    So you’ve been here since…right now, but see the site trending downward.

    Interesting.
    Me thinks someone has created a dupe account to be where they are not supposed to be.

  • 7gem7gem

    You may not be the dumbest person in the world but you should hope he doesn't die.

  • disneysamuraidisneysamurai

    I’m going to guess this is all hearsay from discussions being had on social media.

  • IronicMaidenIronicMaiden

    @mauvefox

    Your theory:

    Me thinks someone has created a dupe account to be where they are not supposed to be.

    Supporting evidence:

    It seems like the a lot of pros are going to that other site because CC lays down overly strict punishments/inconveniences on pro cuddlers. There are so many pros that are sweet well-intentioned people that end up on the banned list and they don’t come back because the probationary punishment period that should be days is weeks.

    Seems likely.

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod
    edited October 30

    Offering opinions as facts but with zero facts behind them, claiming knowledge of "punishments" that don't exist, overall acting like he knows the site well after two whole days of being a member, hmmmm...

  • Mike403Mike403

    It's not that hard to follow rules and if you break one, you are usually given warnings before a ban unless it was something really bad.

  • Carrie_AnneCarrie_Anne

    If you’re here to break rules, there are plenty of other websites to do that.
    Please take your new and likely duplicate previously banned account elsewhere.

  • SpicyNSweetSpicyNSweet

    What is happening🤣🤣🤣

  • KatotaKatota

    Lol! It's a party and I made it this time! Whoo! 🎉🙌🎉🙌🎉🙌🎉🙌

    Lol 😂😂😂😂

  • KatotaKatota
    edited October 30

    Yay! We got clowns 🤡 (yes I am a clown 🤡, honk honk! 😂) and a troll host...Who brought the cake?! 🎂😂

    Somebody better bring the cake ...And ice cream! 🍨 🍨 🍨

  • SelfMadeJaySelfMadeJay

    You know what @baxter89456 you bring up an interesting point. So I'm gonna play Devil's Advocate and actually take your claim seriously.

    I too have seen pros lose their CC privileges here out of the blue, some of them I have had interest in. Although just because I get what you mean, doesn't make it entirely true. What evidence do you have that there's a shortage of pros in this site? I've only been here a year so I'm not the forum veteran many others are here, but what makes your dire allegation remotely true? Can you even prove that you're not some person that is butthurt because your original account got banned?

  • TxTomTxTom

    Cuddle Comfort activity trending downward?

    I don't see it. There are periodic ebbs and flows, of course, but the current level of activity seems the same to me as it was when I joined.

  • AlexxaAlexxa

    I've been here for 6 months and I enjoy the website with rules. I've made a few cuddle buddies and continue to grow my circle.

  • joyouscuddlistjoyouscuddlist

    The level of savvy evinced here gives me hope for humanity—and the internet. Thanks, y’all. Needed this today!

  • argentwillargentwill

    Slightly off-topic, but I am curious:
    Has the site been seeing an increase in activity lately? I created an account 4 years ago, but only started actively using it recently.

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod
    edited November 4

    @argentwill Not slightly off topic: completely off topic. Your comment has nothing to do with the block list limit. Moving your comment to another thread where it fits better.

  • jdev25jdev25

    @argentwill Good question. And honestly, it's pretty relevant. If the site is becoming more active over time, then a block list limit that hasn't increased to keep pace with that could be considered out of date. Great catch.

  • BellaAineBellaAine

    When you're trying to rage bait but make a rookie mistake. 🤦‍♀️

  • KAD2231KAD2231

    It would seem that way. So many inactive profiles or just straight up not many people to pick from.

    When I lived in Buffalo, NY one of the few active pros came down from Canada, because there were basically no active pros in Buffalo.

    After I left the state and moved to a college town I thought the site might be more active here, but no such luck. Just more of the same.

    Which is unfortunate, because if I could find someone to cuddle with the old fashioned way, I wouldn’t be here.