Cheeseboy also thinks he's the authority figure here who gets to tell everyone else what to do. Classic male ego behavior.
Cheeseboy is one of the fairest and chillest dudes on the site. Don’t know where your hostility is coming from.
Bad moods have terrible conversation skills.
A lot of men don't listen to women, so it's nice to see men talking to other men about things like this.
For those of you stating it should just be common sense .. let me assure y'all, after doing this for 4 years now .... Common sense is way less common than any of us would like to believe it to be. Same goes for common decency.
@IronicMaiden unfortunately there are men who, as has been shown, don't listen to anyone and just do what they want.
While this list was designed for men meeting with pros, there are definitely some good guidelines for meeting with enthusiasts, although there are some things on there that would be wrong for trying to meet with an enthusiast, such as starting off with suggesting dates.
I think an additional bullet could be: know who you are engaging with, a pro or an enthusiast, they are different kinds of engagement.
Right on @mauvefox, I appreciate the input and response. Ironically it seems the men that could benefit the most from a guide such as this are the ones that are not receptive...
Yes, this guide is/was intended for men booking with pros.
I don't know if it will let me edit/revise again - but I did miss a section on how to connect initially - with an introduction, a photo, etc - those were touched on by others in the comments here. Its vitally important and many pro cuddlers will not respond at all if you don't meet some basic pre-requisites.
Take what you find useful in this guide, discard the rest.
Its been interesting to see all the different responses. I appreciate all the perspectives and have learned from ones that I didn't have or consider - and yes, common sense isn't so common...
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