Was wondering what the right way and wrong way is to find a cuddle buddy, as I have been on here quite a while and still no luck, any suggestions would be great, thanks.
Start by skipping the fart jokes?
Good one!
@thefirsthello theres a saying ābirds of a feather flock togetherā. IMO it seems as if you donāt have this type of humorš To each their own.
And my response to the post: Respect, genuineness, patience and remembering time and energy is precious. We all must protect our own and be aware of others and really focus in on how this isnāt a dating website. Itās a cuddle site, and for pros specifically here for the actual reason itās pretty black and white type of process. Iād say if youāre booking a pro remember the TOS and utilize being informed as to expedite communication w the pro in not addressing simple things that are outlined in the terms provided by CC (or info on their profile) How refreshing it is for a client to reach out and know how the process works instead of creating a pointless convo for days or potentially weeks for whatever reason. I do not entertain these but had to learn. So take that insight info as you will but I mean it with all respect and kindnessšŗ I cuddle most clients that reach out, however we all have the right to cuddle who feels right. Everyone has personal lives and I know if I donāt entertain it in public I sure as heck wonāt on this site. But there are so many amazing humans in this community so sending you all the positive vibes for your first sessionš«šŖ¬
It takes time. You've been at this a couple of months. Also, different geographic locations will produce different results.
Filter your search to show only people who have logged on recently, at least within the last month, but maybe even the last week.
Read profiles carefully, know if you are engaging with an enthusiast or a pro. There are several forum posts about how to engage with both. But many have put some thought into what their profiles say and will give you insights on how to approach them as an individual.
If you're looking for an enthusiast only, then expect that to take longer.
@Mmmeoww Iām a huge South Park fan, base humor doesnāt offend me in the slightest. My point is more that given the millions of ways you could make a first impression on a cuddling site, why is that your choice? I donāt mean to judge I just donāt see the point when youāre actively having a hard time finding someone.
@thefirsthello Oh, come on. The world is falling apart. We have to be able to laugh at the thought of looking for a fart in a jacuzzi š
@KarmaBear It would help if you could share your current approach! Are you looking for enthusiasts or professionals? (the former will be harder; the latter should be easier!) How are you reaching out to people? Personally, I loooove a good intro message that has a proper hello that feels warm and friendly, your name and a photo, a few dates and times that work for you for sessions, and some sort of personal information, like why youāre on here, what sort of session youāre seeking, how you found this website, a bit of info about you as a person outside of cuddling. I also really appreciate when someone DOESNāT comment on my appearance. Itās okay to want to cuddle with someone you find attractive but it always feels uncomfortable to field compliments or comments about my appearance. Other compliments (about their profile, something they said, the vibe they give off, etc) are always welcome. Curiosity, warmth, kindness, and being forthcoming about who you are is a great way to approach someone. The amount of messages women get on here is nuts. āHey āŗļøā, āGreat photos!ā, āWould love to book a session sometime.ā messages get lost in the shuffle because theyāre totally impersonal.
Virtual sessions can also be a great icebreaker (if youāre looking for a professional) and help establish rapport which can be helpful when you donāt have any karma yet.
Also, not at all required, but having a willingness to share ID (everything blocked out but your name and photo) and/or a LinkedIn account, some other internet profile for verification purposes, can go a long way. It can feel like a risk having a session with someone who has no karma and these things can help your cuddler feel much safer.
Good luck to you! š
Well, clearly my intuitions about first impressions is wrong. Carry on!
@thefirsthello I laughed way too hard at your comment while giving the OPās little joke a š of its own. Your intuition isn't wrong; we just don't all think alike.
I looked in the jacuzzi and itās not there. Any hints where it might be? Gas is a precious commodity and fracking for natural gas in a jacuzzi is not cool or environmentally friendly.
Americans put gas in their cars!
To Americans, gas is a liquid.
I do appreciate the bubbly personalities we see here.
This is sending me into an emotional spiral. To laugh or to weep, that is the question. š
@KarmaBear Iād just add that your first message should show some effort. Donāt put all the emotional labor on the other person or expect them to carry the conversation. Iāve had people say they want to get to know me better before booking, only to ask questions that are already answered in my bio. A little initiative goes a long way. Good luck on your journey.
Are you searching for an enthusiast or a pro? Enthusiasts take much longer in my experiences
It's like looking for a fart in a jacuzzi š¤
So is Werewolf mating...š«¤šŗā„ļø
@Katota I never knew hot tubs were involved in werewolf mating.
@IronicMaiden these truly are natures mysteries. Itās clearly a much more complex ritual than we knew.
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