What places are okay to cuddle?

lonleymisterlonleymister
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So, I am new and trying to figure out how to deal with something missing in my life. I am not hiding anything so there's that. However it's not something I want to bring I to my home in front of my kids just yet.

So if hosting is out, or guest, what are suggestions for places? Is your office a no go? Movie theater? Just trying to figure out where someone could snuggle with out doing a hotel or and air b&b? Or is that the acceptable thing to do?

Thanks.

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  • TxTomTxTom

    Once you're messaging with another cuddler, you can discuss satisfactory locations between the two of you.

  • jmdankjmdank

    I’ve only had one meetup like this, and because I’m pretty shy, I suggested we start with a walk. We went to a nearby forest preserve and found a bench. As soon as we sat down, he put his arm around me. It was really nice, even though I was still nervous. He suggested meeting again, and I said we’d keep in touch, but my shyness got the better of me and I never followed up. Looking back, I wish I had, because he was such a nice person.

    If cuddling at home isn’t an option, I’d suggest a public park or forest preserve when the weather warms up. Going for a walk first can give you a chance to talk and get comfortable with each other, and then you can find a bench if you both feel like sitting close.

    When I first started dating my girlfriend, I also took her to a forest preserve, where we found a quiet, secluded spot to cuddle. I’d save that kind of setting for someone you already know and feel comfortable with, though. For a first meetup, I’d stick to a more visible public area.

  • CuddleTherapy70CuddleTherapy70

    Places I have tried and been ok with basic handholding and snuggling against each other.

    -park (if they have the adult porch swing type those are nice, have used one at a local arboretum too)

    -nature (state park, nature preserve, etc. Might want to bring a blanket, some do have benches on the trail)

    -Beach ( although a little cold at present)

    -Coffee shop that has couches We have a local one that is awesome especially since the back room is often empty during non peak times

    -bookstores often have adult reading areas, go through a travel guide together

    -movies

    Just a few ideas

  • CuddleBarista1CuddleBarista1

    Mall, restaurants, cafe, parks, festivals, boat ride, clubs/lounges, book store, library, ice skating, mini golf, etc.

  • lonleymisterlonleymister

    Thanks, i appreciate the feedback,