I'm new on here and so far the Men are only looking to hook up. Expect lower payment. Don't understand hour or more drives will have an additional fee... This site is NOTHING like what it says it's about....
Well that's a bummer. Probably just a report and move on situation though. My understanding is that they take propositioning people pretty seriously
I have ... Thank you for the feed back
Don't be discouraged! And hold your ground, know what you're worth. The wonderful people who understand your value won't question your prices. They're out there, I promise
You only joined in January, less than two weeks ago! It's a little bit early to be judging the site. Why don't you post your concerns in the Professionals forum - you'll get better help there.
Donot be discouraged! It takes time to build up clients. Almost all the people on the site I have came through are real gems. If some one asks you for lower rates or any other services you are not comfortable offering ( other than platonic ) you have the right to say NO. Good luck ??
Nothing wrong with asking for more competitive rates. You can say no. As long as they aren't rude about it
That sucks. Have you cuddled yet? You're on my Fav list?
You need to report people who are asking for things you’re not comfortable doing. The site wants to remain legitimate, so it will deal with people who misuse the site. As a man, I want the creeps outed. The creeps make good people look bad by association.
I just joined so I will reserve judgement until I start "cuddlng". Appreciate all the info and comments though. Thanks!
From the other side...all this site is is women who won’t respond and women who want to charge money. Disappointing is an understatement. I’m looking for a friend. Not an employee.
@Coco0985: What about the men? And I know I'm not the only one who fits neither category!
This site is way more than just the silent or professional women. If you're looking for a friend, there are lots of options, male, female, both, neither, reticent, garrulous, those who make a living making others feel loved and those who don't. You can cuddle with any of them so long as they'll cuddle with you. Pick a person.
When you tell the site you prefer to cuddle only women, it just shows you the women... but the rest of us are here, too. Promise.
@DarrenWalker I'm not comfortable cuddling with men. And while I don't doubt what you're saying it just isn't an option for me.
As for the other points, I'm sure there are people that don't fit my expectations that use this site -- I just haven't really found any so far.
@Coco0985: Well, you've found one now. Or I've found you, whichever.
Even leaving us nonbinary types aside, there are more types of woman than the non-replying and pro types. But yeah, all of my cuddles through this site have been with cis males. You're just easier to get hold of, you know? So it's a shame you're not looking for a male friend, 'cause I bet you'd find lots.
You have guy friends in RL, though, yeah? But probably none of you are close enough to be comfortable with a bro-snuggle. Seems like that's usually the way it goes. Kind of a shame, but hey. It is what it is.
So your best bet's probably looking for a woman who responds... which (based on my experience) could take a while.
Still, this site is more than "women who won’t respond and women who want to charge money."
...Fortunately for me.
@DarrenWalker I see you and I want to be you ☺
@HandcarvedCanoe: Just for that, I'm sending you a friend request.
Edit: And I think you beat me to it, but it's difficult to be sure because my, that happened quickly.
You were first ? but it won't let me direct message you because I'm new to the site and I already initiated too many conversations today.
Ahaha, website guidelines. It's fine, I'm making spaghetti and getting ready for work right now anyway. I'll still be here tomorrow!
...Though I'll probably be asleep. Eh. It'll be fine.
For right now, though, real quick: do you listen to Welcome to Night Vale? Because I do, and I like it.
I listened to it every day this week. I'm only on episode 39 though because I just started in December.
[triumphantly] Ha! I thought you seemed like the WTNV type.
Of the established roles for people to play in that quiet little desert community, I think I'd like best to be The Faceless Old Person Who Secretly Lives In Your Home—though there is something to be said for being a librarian.
I think I'd make a great librarian.
And isn't Cecil just adorable?
This site isn't what I expected. I thought it was cuddle enthusiest. Ppl here to cuddle for free. Instead 80% want to charge, the rest look at it as a dating site.
I have paid for cuddles. If not, it wouldn't happen. It would be nice to have a cuddle friend.
Particularly when he gushes over Carlos.
(Sorry about hijacking the thread)
@HandcarvedCanoe: Especially then.
@ Everyone else: ...Yeah, um... sorry. I think we're done. On this thread, anyway!
the original poster blocked me. All I did was comment here my opinion. That's not nice is it?
@melancholy You messaged me. I was not intrested. U are not blocked. Just not intrested. I'm sorry you felt that because u commented on here was the reason. I actually haven't even seen ur comments towards my original post.
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@melancholy again... I am sorry i wasn't interested sir... But trying to give bad vibes out there about me says more about you than me. I have the right to pick and choose who I conversate with. I'm sorry sir I couldn't please you in accommodating a session with you but after this. I think I chose correctly. Have a blessed day. Best of luck to you ?
Lol
I've interacted with @Mzhugzalot and she was pleasant. If we were closer I would love to be her 1st cuddle. Maybe we will?
Bye Felicia.