I am a new professional cuddler and I want to know or figure out the best way to respond initially to a cuddle request where I can set the stage for what is to be expected and boundaries. How are you all accomplishing this and what are you saying?
I always tell them when speaking of "Boundaries" and "rules" that I adhere strictly to the cuddle contract and that as long as the have read and understand the cuddle contract that we should get along fine. Then, no matter what they continue to try to ask me, I just keep going back to "The Cuddle Contract" "Have you read the cuddle contract?" "Do you know the cuddle contract" That type of thing. Always re-iterating that I am a rule follower and that I adhere strictly to the contract and that I expect them to as well. I also expressly give my rules for the first session, and if they continue to ask me for discounts, longer time, or weekends, which are all 3 things I don't offer until we've had an introductory session, then I let them know that if they are already asking me to break my own rules or give more or do more and we haven't even met yet, then I can't trust that they won't really push the boundaries when we are alone together, and then I refuse to meet with them. I just believe it's always better to be safe then sorry and as long as I stick to my guns, it makes the site safer for everyone else as well. Hope that helps!
I for one as a new cuddler for that very helpful thank you