also maybe being picky with full body photos too may be a bit too much. like if it's not enough to show what I look like in jeans and a t-shirt, sorry?
I've been told things like "I just want to make sure you're not fat under all that" like I guess they want a skin hugging outfit in the full body photo.
@stellarosass Wow, now THAT is rude; and if they're asking for a skin-tight outfit (which is NOT APPROPRIATE) or to make sure you're "not fat under all that" by which they mean "under normal, modest clothing"? I'd block and report them. That's sketchy as hell, and they need to understand that it's NOT okay to sexualize any of this. We have policies here, and no one should treat pros like pieces of meat.
I found the request for a full body shot to be rude simply because I felt reduced to simply being labeled, as fat vs. thin, ugly vs. pretty, or possessing a face with large pores vs. one with small pores. We are all worth so much more than the sum of our parts, or how big our butts are in relation to how small our waists are. If one is searching for a cuddler based mostly upon appearance, I am most certainly not the right cuddler for that cuddlist.
I should’ve added that I spoke with the guy that accused me of being fat for quite a while by phone. He kept going on about my voice, saying it was alluring and a turn on. He was trying to figure out a date/time to cuddle and he said, “You know what, let’s just meet up tonight in an hour; I have a very good feeling about you.” My creep-radar is starting to get in tune because I told him that his wanting to see me right away and telling me that I have an alluring voice sounded more like a booty call than a platonic cuddling session and I told him I’d pass. I noticed he’s since had his account deactivated or banned.