What do you do while cuddling?

December 2016

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December 2016

I like rubbing, giving scalp/neck/shoulder/back massages, sometimes a brief snug hug and oops! Don't want to give away all my cuddlin' secrets! I like variety but it depends on what we agree upon. Tho sometimes it's nice to embrace, lie still and just enjoy the simplicity of each others warmth and energy.

December 2016

Yeah, I think giving and receiving massages on the scalp, neck, shoulder and back are a good idea. ^_^ It's also nice to watch movies, TV shows or listen to music together. Other times it's most relaxing to just chat or rest in silence. It varies!

psilocuddle · December 2016

I like completely embracing my parter with my arms and legs, and my face pressed into her. Playing with her hair and caressing each other wherever.

I've only watched movies so far but would like to change it up. Music and chat maybe, but I'm really bad at conversations.

December 2016

Depends who I'm with

December 2016

Each client has different requests/needs. I customize each "cuddle" session accordingly. The first time can feel a little awkward for either, or both, so having your client communicate their desires is very helpful. And ladies, please make sure you implement "healthy boundaries" before the session starts:-) Peace

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CarlosHunt · December 2016

Cuddygirl - so you're saying that kissing your neck was past your boundaries? what happened?

December 2016

@Cuddygirl - can see why a man would want to kiss your neck. You're a very beautiful woman! When I first started cuddling, kissing was definitely off the list of "dos". As I became more confident, and comfortable with my client, I would allow a little kissing, either on my shoulder, or neck. Not every client gets access, I feel it out:-) Besides, I sure do miss kissing, and I enjoy that level of intimacy;-) **It doesn't have to go "downhill". Just communicate your boundaries during the session, again and again and again if you have to. Eventually, they do listen...hehehe Peace

netrunner · December 2016

Watched a movie or a movie series, binge watch a TV series, playing video games together while cuddled up (had an ex that enjoyed watching me play but didn't want to play), relaxing in silence, giving each other full back massages, everything from pillow talk to deep conversations, people watching (if in public like a mall, park, or music festival), cuddling in a pool or hot tub or warm bath. I have a 2-person travel hammock that I have yet to cuddle with some in, but once it gets warmer that will be a goal for this Spring

@Cuddygirl I'm very sorry to hear that things turned awkward and then went downhill from there. While I don't know if you had talked with that person beforehand about your boundaries, I would recommend posting a few things you are and are not comfortable doing while cuddling with someone on your profile as what some may be okay with, other won't be. I see several Pros on this site that do this and even though I'm not a Pro I still do it so that my intentions and boundaries are clear that this is strictly a platonic friendship and for cuddling and not trying to use this site as some dating site. Cuddling is intimate, makes you vulnerable, and is physically and spiritually healing with the right person.

December 2016

Regarding what @floweroflife said, women in general are very intuitive and pros have seen various clients. If you do something such as kiss them on the shoulder and are pure in heart and in thought, they will know and will most likely not have an issue with it. If you go in for a kiss with ulterior motives, they'll know that also. I remember one session with a cuddler that outwardly said not to touch her in her bikini area. Her and I were spooning and I realized I was grabbing her boobs and moved my hands. I later mentioned it to her and apologized. She said she understands my intentions and when it happened, she just let it go. My point here being that obviously everyone is different but if you go into a cuddle with the best intentions, you'll most likely be fine.

netrunner · December 2016

@Morpheus well said and great example

December 2016

I just cuddled with one person on this site yet and it was great. I tried to just mirror what he did cz i am all new to this ciddling thing. We rubbed backs and he played with my hair etc. Movie pr listening to music is great as well

Were u uncomfortable with him kissing ur neck? If you were, i should communicate with him later that u didn't like it. Most of guys are respectful cz they want to pleasure u as well. And u gotta tell them what u like them to do. Talking about boundries before u begin helps alot.

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December 2016

@Cuddygirl - Allowed the kiss or allowed sex? If you allowed sex I'm not sure what the question is anymore... because you don't just allow sex if you don't want to and I thought you were asking how to prevent a buddy from kissing? I'm confused what advice you're after if you had sex with him.

If you mean you just allowed the kiss and it turned into making out or grinding with no sex, and you were okay with that... well then I'm still confused what the question you're asking or advice you're seeking? Please explain. As for kissing, I chatted with a girl from this site a loooong time ago and she wanted to cuddle and make out because she liked kissing. That's her deal and we discussed it prior to setting a meeting. I just wanted to cuddle but whatever, I told her if she's clean and doesn't got the herpes then I'd kiss her some. I ended up never meeting up with her because in the end I really just wanted cuddles and not to make out with a stranger. I have kissed necks, shoulders, backs, stomachs, and heads before... but all my cuddle buddies have always been friends first and we were comfortable with one another. With a stranger I don't think I'd do that without permission beforehand or in the moment.

Uh... yeah so hope I answered whatever your question was? But I doubt I did...

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jacobbur · January 2017

I wish I could find a pro who is open to playful kisses

jeff53 · January 2017

Holding hands, a shoulder to lean on, a light hug while watching a movie, TV show, spooning (big or small spoon)
listening to music, having a light or deep conversation. Neck or shoulder massage to try and break some of the RL tension/stress.

January 2017

I just lie with my partner and talk. If we start rubbing too much and especially kiss in any capacity, we're crossing into foreplay territory and I'll start to get sexually aroused, and I'm not sure all women would be ok with feeling an erect, throbbing dong creeping up on them.

greenearth2 · January 2017

That's too bad. I can do all sorts of rubbing etc and nothing sexual ever happens if my mind isn't on sex.
Everyone is different

February 2017

Yeah, my mind doesn't have to be on it for my body to respond. Just gotta know your limits.

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