I have used professional cuddlers and value it for all the reason's everyone else does. But I always feel weird at the end because a professional cuddler didn't choose you or anything and for all I know doesn't think of it as anything more then a gig. I always wondered what it was like for a pro cuddler. What was it like the very first time you cuddled with a stranger? How do you really feel each time you cuddle? Is it just a gig or do you get as much out of it as the cuddlee? What about boundries? I'm very aware and respectful of that - maybe too much so. I like big, warm, full contact type, wrap your legs around each other, cuddles, not in a sexual way as I have a g/f. But I'll end up not doing that just because I don't want to cross boundries and end up feeling I sort changed myself. Am I being overly concerned about that sort of thing or am I right to scale it back a bit?