I hope we can rekindle a friendship I belive this is more than cuddle if you ever need assistance with finances, emotions, social needs let me know. I can very well see you are a strong women.
Do you know this person? Have you interacted with them prior to their message? Context would be helpful.
Your choices are to engage, not respond, or block.
Sounds like a veiled sugar daddy proposal.
I don't know your history with that person. It does sound like a sugar daddy proposal like the previous person said.
The main thing that is a bit off is "I belive this is more than cuddle". Everything after that point seems like a proposal to a relationship beyond the terms of this site and seems to fit as a motion for dating. Again this is just going off of the message alone and not knowing the context.
The fact that you are asking for an opinion suggest that you might want to respond to this person, otherwise I think it would have been ingnored or declined.
Honest opinion: this sounds like a set up to a scammer who plays on emotion of the vulnerable and the sweet words are just a way to get in your favor before asking you of something. (Wiring money for instance)
I don't give money to relatives... why do strangers think I'd give THEM anything?
@laylanie But that is sooooo negative! Shame on you! I mean a sugar daddy proposal on a platonic cuddle site? It must be LOVE!!!
@Sideon Because you WANT something from that stranger, something more than platonic. Devious smiles....
agreed with @laylanie and @Sideon this is out of context and if you're asking the hive it probably means you are asking permission to accept.
Too me it's grounds for banning. It is absolutely non platonic. If you can't decide for yourself I'd stay away. That offer will have many psychological strings, even a whole web of things that go with it.
To me, this sounds like somebody who is looking for a relationship rather than just a cuddle. I would think twice about answering him.
Straight outta Seeking Arrangements.
@PaulaDahla - hey, if the ones that can't read or understand platonic, then I do have some interest: they could start by CLEANING MY HOUSE. I mean, I wouldn't want to waste an opportunity to help a man be useful.
Block it.
Report
There is such a thing as platonic SD . And I can count at least three pros on this site , with profiles up on Seeking arrangement.
There is such a thing as platonic SD.
Not that it isn't impossible @cuddleforu24 but I think a scenario like that is incredibly rare, especially in this day and age. Many SDs are making an investment in someone in return for something. No significant amount of the SD/SM patronage is sharing their hard-earned wealth with someone in exchange for a simple friendship and if they are, they're a unicorn.
Regardless, it's sketchy, against TOS and I hope the OP has had enough input to report said member.
And I can count at least three pros on this site , with profiles up on Seeking arrangement.
How did you come to this conclusion unless you are on said sites yourself? Do you check the profile of each pro and do a search on these websites in their cities to find them or what? Are these pros local to you? Since most of the time sexual exchanges are involved (or at least expected) on SA, maybe you should screenshot these profiles and report them to the mods if you are indeed telling the truth. Mark has said in the new rule change that pros who maintain a profile on largely non-platonic websites should not be here.
@FunCartel - It's not veiled in the slightest.
@sideon You mean I can get someone to clean my house on this site? What about detailing the inside of my car after a messy winter? Do I cuddle them before or after they do the dirty work?
Seriously, two minutes into this site, almost anyone can see the purpose of the site is to help people find partners for platonic cuddling. It’s not a hidden secret. Anybody who asks for anything else should go somewhere else to find it.
NEW BRANDING! Cuddlemaids! That's where someone tries to vaccum your house, but you cling to the person like a barnacle!
I would report them (copy and send the message with your report) and then block them.
x3 I’m sure she appreciates you knowing she is “a strong women.”
@Lorelei either they were implying she had a weight problem, were saying she has the strength of multiple people or knows something we don't.
Which women has this guy been sapping the strength from and giving with his cuddles? think we've solved the mystery, rather than a veiled sugar daddy offer he was asking for protecting from the lizardmen who want his ability. Clear as day, I mean it's that or the sugar daddy thing right - a sugar daddy or anything other than innocent cuddles on our good innocent creepfree site? preposterous.
dude needs to learn the plural/singular of woman/women. dont trust 'em if they grammer be rong.
@Zundar xD You made a full, beautiful, crackpot conspiracy theory from a simple joke on someone's bad grammar and I'm dying...! I have the uncontrollable urge to friend you, I feel like I just found a kindred spirit.. lmao.
@Lorelei well thank you, if you're my kindred spirit then I'm sorry for your bad luck in the draw lol. Will be going to sleep in a good mood because of your kind words so thanks again.
@BlueIris Yes you are right. I was giving a semi benefit of the doubt.
Step 1: Collect millions
Step 2: Block
@Zundar I'm sorry for you, too, haha. xD Nonetheless, I'm pleased my words boosted your mood!
sounds like someone isn't following the TOS. (the person who sent that message)
Someone should tell Mr. X that hourly rentals are a better value than annual lease. At least that's what I heard.
@Esquire That is why car companies push leases...they see people like Mr X coming from a mile away. (An analogy within the TOS)
^^ You two, I love it Esquire and FunCartel. StellaRosass, nice picture!