Most men on here are asking if i provide sex . i thought this was cuddling only. And when i say no sex , they still keep on insisting and bribing me with money
wherever you go you're going to run across those people. it is cuddling only so report whoever is asking you this stuff and block them
Apparently the admins are watching all of our chats, so I'm not sure why they don't delete those users like they do when the ladies ask for money and aren't labelled as pro. In fact, they don't even bother explaining what they have done when they do block them. Anyway, discussion for another thread maybe. Btw, if the letters s, e, and x enter your inbox, just block them. Don't bother replying no. Those guys asking don't deserve an ounce of your energy.
Report them. Especially those Canadians.
@TeddyBear81 the admins are not Big Brother watching all your chats, but yes, they do have the ability to monitor anyone's account. @OneHeart , Please report anyone using the site to try and find anything more than platonic cuddling.
Not that this is an excuse but. U don't have anything on ur profile. Write a little about urself. Then add Platonic only. Remind them that they will get reported or block. Good luck. Happy cuddleing.
@MaxCuddle While this is something she should do if she wants her intent to be made clear, this strategy of adding "Platonic Only" might deter some people from seeking sex, but not all. Some will just copy-paste the same garbage and send it to whoever is around as though they were passing out party favours.
@OneHeart I agree with @DaForceofNature. You need to report these people as soon as they make themselves known, or if they have a shirtless photo, or anything that suggests non-platonic (mention of kissing, touching feet/private areas, indulging in fetishes etc). This site is only monitored by 3 moderators (one of whom is on a bit of a hiatus) and they can't possibly keep an eye on everything. As a community, we can help out by doing that.
@DaForceofNature I'm sad to report that I have experience to the contrary on multiple occasions. Accounts we're closed within minutes or hours of communicating.
@TeddyBear81 they likely were reported by another user
Every person female or male that asks for sex should be reported immediately. You don’t want that person to go on to pray on or harass someone else. They don’t really want to be a part of our cuddle community.
Report them, block them, and move on. You don't owe them a response.
@TeddyBear81 It sounds like you chatted with unlisted Pro's, which are a different issue, but they need to follow the rules as well. As I understand things, unless offenses are egregious, people are given an opportunity to explain themselves and be let back in.
I think at times men get a bad rep for this. Unfortunately I have experienced girls on this site that ask for more then cuddling for more money and will provide 'extras' I also have had girls ask for gift cards before meeting up. It goes both ways. I think a lot of guys feel entitled to ask because they have been told by other girls. Both is wrong.
Report them
@Yanks28 please report those people too. We don't want them here tainting things for those of us are here to provide a legit cuddle service.
I will also reiterate the point made about price. You have the right to charge what you like, but please consider that even most who have gone through thousands of dollars of training and certification don't even charge up to $100 and above. I would lower your rate to juxtapose with your actual experience in doing this (I will assume you are new...I have been doing this for 2.5 years now and have no intent of raising my rate until I am trained). Conider that the going rate of trained professionals in this industry is typically around $80. Paired with the styling of your photos @OneHeart , a higher price leaves more room for interpretation as to what is being offered. Sure, you have the freedom to represent yourself as you like, but try and think about how it can be interpreted from someone else's point of view who is seeking services you claim to not offer. I would definitely take the advice of writing a longer profile description as well. (edit: apparently I typed the username wrong lol)
@Catloaf +1 - those two things were the first things I noticed on her profile and would have commented on (but waited so that I wasn't blasted for being a "sexist" pig/male - price and the second pic, not lurid or sexual per se, but just enough, WITH the high price to make people think, hmmmmmm. As there are two of us that thought it AND were bold enough to say it, there were probably a handful more that thought it.
@Yanks28 I have experienced the same and reported them - not common, but it's happened more than once. I am very open with my words and especially "private" conversations, but don't ask for, solicit or suggest sex, this isn't the place for that. Male, female, donkey, rabbit, take your sex trade somewhere else! Please and thank you.
I too have been offered or suggested more than a platonic circumstance, each time they were banned before i had a chance to react, or actually deleted themselves. It was surprising and I’ve been alert to the conversations moving forward. I see a lot of questionable profiles but i still hope to find platonic cuddles out here, and try not to condemn everyone in my mind.
The sex trade is looking for an outlet to do their business and unfortunately this appears to be a viable option for those offering and consuming. To bad we just can’t have separate spaces since it’s not going to stop.
$120 and no profile.
Good stuff, Maynard.
@OneHeart - just block anyone who asks for that. Simple!
@OneHeart I admire you! You are much more valuable than creepy men offering money for inappropriate favors. Sorry that you are being hassled, after clearly communicating. Stay strong and the right “platonic cuddlers” will come.
What da heck do want us to do lol theres alot of good guys on this site and a few dirt bags
Reporting: I had a relatively new female enthusiast contact me, and was pushy in asking for a text number and requesting more info than she offered in return. I let it go on for about 10 days. Then I reported her stating that I couldn’t site a rule she had broken, but that she might be watched as it didn’t feel right. Next time I came online, she had been banned. Perhaps based on my suspicions, admin looked at her other messages and pulled the trigger. Or there may have been another more specific report.
There has been an influx of female cuddlers in my area that have been interested in more or asking for money up front and not even being labeled as pro, etc... So the scammers seem to be finding there way here all of a sudden. Something folks should keep in mind... The new scammers are asking for $40 or less as a deposit before meeting and while that's not enough to really get butt hurt over, they are counting on you not caring because they do this on a mass scale. Think if you do that 4 times a day, you've got a nice little side gig going. Off topic sorry but the OP doesn't seem too interested in replying to their own thread so shrugs
Your inflated $120 an hour fee and provocative pic probably lead them to believe you offer more than cuddling.
@Morpheus pic is NOT provacative or misleading. She has natural grace. Please show respect. Thank you.
I agree w @sam4life.
@sam4life Her second pic could be construed by guys who look for that stuff. I understand what Morpheus is saying and I agree. In a perfect world this wouldn’t be the case and guys wouldn’t be hunting girls for sex. But this world ain’t perfect and a lady needs to consider the possibility of perception.
Second pic she is wearing sweats. Yeesh.
@Morpheus i agree with you
@Navyman1010 seriously?!
I see what's happening here.
Did any of you notice this is a Canadian cuddlers - which means the value of money is different than the USD
@OneHeart is a very sweet person.