As a long-haired person who sheds like a dog I've never thought of but have experienced that swimming through hair thing with some people. I've got a cuddle on Saturday and I'm definitely going to have to ask that up-or-down question; I'll probably leave my hair up because we intend to be face to face.
I think it is fair if some female cuddlers chose not to shave their beards or moustaches. Hey this is 2019 for God's sake.
@BlueIris Thank you. At least you recognize logic. Sad that logic is taken as rude or mean nowadays because the truth revealed in it can hurt sometimes.
I mean even a kid knows that you could shave facial hair off and somebody will say they wish you had facial hair and vice versa. Purely common sense. A more intriguing and dangerous question is when a woman asks, “Does this outfit make me look fat?” The only way for a man to minimize the risk of his answer is to ask the question, “Are you going for fat?” Answer her question based off her answer to his question.