What kind of extras, tools do pros use?

ReltvlyCanshesReltvlyCanshes
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I was curious because i just seen this product. But what are all the goodies that pros and seasoned enthusiast bring to the cuddle. Do some separate one from the rest?
https://www.kvue.com/mobile/article/money/consumer/someone-invented-a-pillow-that-saves-your-arm-from-going-numb-while-spooning/285-da2ad580-cdfe-45e4-ac8e-68e16b1a84c0

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  • CUD_maleCUD_male

    cannot access that link, has anyone else been able to

  • HappinessHenryHappinessHenry

    Hey @BashfulLoner Thanks for sharing this. This is so a solution to a 21st century problem...and I want one!

  • LovelightLovelight
    edited May 2019

    @CUD_male I can access it. You can try googling this title:

    “Someone invented a pillow that saves your arm from going numb while spooning”

    @BashfulLoner lovely! There are others I came across long ago, for different positions like the arm under someone’s near waistline. I am pretty sure there was one. Maybe it came in the form of a mattress.

    There’s also one for glasses wearing people. It allows one to rest on their side with their glasses on. Can be quite useful.

  • HappinessHenryHappinessHenry

    Gantry. Leavy lifting equipment. Arc welder. And a jack hammer. And they are just for the pre cuddle getting-to-know-you bit.

  • HappinessHenryHappinessHenry

    You definitely come across the odd "tool" on this site!

  • WorthyWorthy

    Not a pro here but I often make a nice charcuterie board for guests.

  • happybearhappybear

    I like to bring food too @Worthy ; as a guest it shows i'm appreciative. my cuddle supplies are pretty simple otherwise. a few waters, food, coconut oil, a pair of shorts, a hat ( hair gets messed up) gum, a deck of cards; I was with a cuddler and as a ice breaker, she had these cards, " mentally stimulate me ", they had questions on them about life, dating, dreams, to contemplate and discuss, it was a great ice breaker, picked up a set from amazon.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    Things I have bought to a cuddle session based on my partner’s request:

    Wine
    Liquor
    Chocolates
    Massage oil
    420–highly requested in Cali
    Lavender essential oil spray (induces relaxation and sleep)

    I have been asked to get cigarettes and that I will not do and would be cause for me to cancel. I hate cig smoke.

  • ReltvlyCanshesReltvlyCanshes

    I don’t now when your serious @FunCartel

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel
    edited May 2019

    I was serious. What was a put on above? I always chat with my cuddlers and ask them if they want refreshments, food or whatever else. I call it common courtesy.

  • WorthyWorthy

    @happybear can you add a link for the cards you like? Good to see others bring the little extras. It does seem thoughtful.

  • WorthyWorthy

    @FunCartel what kind of lavender spray do you use?

  • cuddlesfordays1cuddlesfordays1
    edited May 2019

    I bring an essential oil diffuser and/or essential oil spray, an ambient music playlist, portable speaker, and bottles of water. :) My apartment in LA was well equipped for a tranquil cuddling atmosphere but I still try to provide a quality service on the go. :)

    I also have a weighted blanket available for when I’m hosting.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @Worthy I try different ones although my favorite is Indigo Wild’s spray:

    https://www.indigowild.com/bath-body/zum-room-body-mist/zum-mist-lavender.html

    I think they sell on Amazon. They are a local company for me and I used to carry their products when I owned a health food store several years ago.

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