Any suggestions for introducing yourself to non pro Cuddlers?
Hello @Relax_always - might be helpful to start by reading up here: https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/comment/35089/#Comment_35089
Best of luck to you.
Howdy padnah.
Be yourself, give a couple of redeemable traits or characteristics about yourself without a dissertation on your life’s history, a quick synopsis of why you are looking to cuddle and a summary of why you picked the person you are reaching out to. If you are really good you might include a self-effacing comment or two because everyone likes someone who can laugh at themself. Be polite and do not be pushy about cuddling.
I would say one mistake is to say too little and just try to see if they want to cuddle, exchange info, etc. A little small talk goes a long way and makes you not come across as shallow. Another mistake is coming off as desperate, like I am a poor broken puppy who needs to be saved. Even if this is the case with you, just don't come at the person unloading all of your issues and making them feel like they are expected to fix you. Another mistake is coming across as flirty like you are trying to come on to them or what not. Even on a date site or when pursuing women in that way, this is not advisable as it makes them often times feel like sex objects. And this is a platonic meeting site so even though some folks treat it as a date site, there are still quite a few who are looking for respite from that sort of thing. Good luck.
Hey thanks guys!
@Relax_always
Great profile, not too long to put one to sleep as some are. Good luck
@CardiacKid I know right? Some profiles like to spend three paragraphs on their philosophy of what cuddling means and how they believe it will cure cancer. You generally find out these people have some serious issues when you meet them.
Hi Im new here, but I enjoy cuddling usually spooning but Im open to different positions. I would like to think Im adept at cuddling because I like to listen to the other person and Im pretty laid back. Im looking for someone who is a non smoker, clean, d and d free. Im NOT looking for a one night stand. I just want to relax and unwind, and I find touch to be especially therapeutic and beneficial. Netflix or TV is ok, but I prefer soft music and getting acquainted with the cuddler first.
Brooklyn Native looking to for someone who needs a cuddle buddy and friend! Shoot me a message I’m outgoing laid back and fun to talk to. I like to listen and give an honest opinion! Let’s chat!