I personally enjoy watching a horror film or listening to music
I go for bloodcurdling screams, clawing at myself, and chanting backwards in Latin before the peaceful oblivion of dreamless sleep takes me.
Personally I like to cuddle. But call me crazy. Everybody does. ?
I like to focus on my cuddle partner.
Listen to soft music, candles and for longer sessions watch a movie or two and order a pizza. Of course make sure my partner is comfortable and safe. Good point BlueIris!!!!
@BlueIris Yes you do.
I like sharing deep conversation, and then switching between that and just holding each other in silence and feeling the connection grow. Breathing to together I also find to be so connecting
A horror movie is a very good idea! Bet that will be fun once Halloween gets close. Good idea
I like to cuddle while watching anime or movies, reading books, listening to music. That kind of thing.
Chatting with my cuddle partner is an option if we find an engaging conversational topic, but I'm more of a debater in conversation than anything else, so it's usually a good idea for me to either just shut up and listen, or else for both of us to focus on something else while enjoying mutual physical contact.
Watch TV, talk quietly, or my ultimate goal is sleeping next to someone while they play with my hair or run fingers up and down my body
@wrench: Like you're a cat, and they're petting you while they watch TV or whatever? Sounds nice. I'd be down to be on either end of that....
Sometimes I like to sing quietly. I had a session where they found that relaxing ☺️ Or just silence and lots of nuzzling
I like to cuddle while i cuddle
cuddle while I cuddle!
If we are comfortable with each other, after the perfunctory small talk, I like to nap.
Love to play in cuddle buddy hair/scalp massage and soft massage to help relax
@DarrenWalker I guess so haha, I get energized by soft touch. Either if I'm the one caressing or being touched it calms me.
@wrench: Oh, I see. Yeah, soft touch freaks my nerve endings out for some weird reason—medium to deep touch for me! [laugh] Preferences.
@BlueIris that's sweet! I hope they like to focus on you too. You deserve it.
@pmvines lol. That's cool!
I love to watch a good comedy movie! Something about mixing the endorphins of a cuddle session with the high feelings of cracking up laughing repeatedly. It's the best!
Watching a movie and just plain cuddling for a while between a movie and the next. We usually spend the day together (Sundays).
I try to just be, and enjoy the (platonic) intimacy of that physical contact. But I end up talking a lot, whispering jokes and sharing things.
I just like to be held, no words. Just made to feel safe and protected for however long the cwtch (cuddle) lasts
Sync my breathing with the other person.
Heard you guys like to cuddle. So you focus on the cuddle, while you cuddle, so you can cuddle while you cuddle.
All memes aside, probably start with a movie or just chatting about whatever makes us laugh, before drifting off to sleep, that or being sung to/light scalp massage to sleep would be nice.
@DarrenWalker Anime; I see you are a man of culture, as well.
Reading aloud can be fun, if both parties can agree upon reading material.
I find that a lot of folks I cuddle with love to talk. I usually offer them the option of a movie, music, talking or cuddling in silence.
@Mister_Chris: So cultured. I'm like cheese. Or yogurt.
Darker Than Black, Fate/Zero, Overlord, Soul Eater.... I also watch the abridged versions of stuff, because only the most cultured can truly appreciate the distilled genius that is (for example) Hellsing Ultimate Abridged. Classy.
I love listing to SCP reports or creepy pastas
I like to Cuddle while Cuddling. Nothing more... Nothing less... Lol. .