Does someone’s age matter to you before cuddling with them?

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Yes, I know cuddling is platonic but it’s still an intimate interaction between 2 people. Maybe intimate is too strong of a word but It doesn’t matter. For example, would you find anything wrong with a 55 year old man scheduling a cuddle session with a pro woman who’s 22? How about vice versa?

I’m not looking for the “it’s up to the person” as an answer. That’s already obvious and known. I’m interested in hearing your personal thoughts on the matter. Pretend you’re the first ever commissioner of cuddling and it’s now time for you to make all the rules. It’s in your hands only.

Personally, I’m always searching for cuddlers who are 30 and older. I prefer 40 - 60. That’s mainly because I’m more comfortable around those who grew up without internet, cell phones, etc. It makes me happy to reminisce on 80’s and 90’s pop culture. If you still weren’t alive when Ace Ventura came out, it might not work. :-). Thanks everyone.

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  • CatloafCatloaf
    edited July 2019

    Even if I was an enthusiast, I would not have a problem at all with the age of the person I cuddle with. So long as we have great connection and synergy that's what matters to me. Often when I cuddle with an older person, I am very, very fondly reminded of the cuddles I had as a child with my grandfather before he passed away. I had not seen him in some years and he was probably my most favourite person on the face of the earth. So cuddling with someone who is older (60's to 70's) actually brings forth a positive space and is so, so valuable to me. I've cuddled with people of all age groups up to 81 now (up from 73 last year). Every generation has something different to share.

    Which reminds me: I actually did a poll on this last year and got quite a few results and comments back which should give you some ideas of what the community thinks.

  • MelancholyMelancholy

    Doesnt matter to me.
    I've cuddled with 20 year olds and 60 year olds.
    Both were nice :)

  • [Deleted User]CharlesTwisted (deleted user)

    All I truly care about is it be consenting adults.

    Beyond that, my personal preferences are entirely about personality, empathy, voice, and smell.

  • [Deleted User]Wine66 (deleted user)
    edited July 2019

    It should not matter, just as long as you both are fully clothed, comfortably, and, you both, have the correct mindset that you are cuddling platonically.

  • SuperManCuddlesSuperManCuddles

    Age does not matter to me either! I have cuddled with adults young to ederly. All of the cuddles felt great.

  • MarthaSpeaksMarthaSpeaks

    Yes, age doesn’t matter, but I have noticed a bit of a trend. I have found that the younger men I have cuddled with seem to push boundaries more than men my age. It’s not always that way, but it been my experience. Maybe it’s just me. Lol

    And yes, pop culture references matter to me too. I don’t want to have to explain who Elvis is.

    I’ve changed my age range search to be narrower around my own age.

  • UKGuyUKGuy
    edited July 2019

    Many people put an age range on their profile so obviously they do have age preferences. Also I strongly suspect even those people who do not specify an age range really do have an age range they consider acceptable. I don't know what men specify since I only look at female profiles, but older females are often looking for younger guys. This site is a pretty barren place for us older guys.

  • pmvinespmvines

    If you look at karma for the paid cuddlers there is an awful lot from men 20 to 30 yes plus their senior . I would assume this is the preference age range of a lot of men looking to hire cuddlers .

  • CardiacKidCardiacKid

    My favorite cuddlers are from 25 to 50.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    Dangerous to type in ages if you mishit a key and the 2 in 25 is a 1. And you do not check your work.

  • [Deleted User]MacaronCuddles (deleted user)

    I prefer young females.

  • hogboblinhogboblin

    I wouldn’t mind cuddling any adult, so long as I didn’t find their personality intolerable.

    I find most personalities intolerable regardless of age.

  • CuddlyRetireeCuddlyRetiree

    I thought cuddling with a woman 39 years younger than me (20) would feel awkward. It was no different than a 30, 36, 47 year old. I got over the awkwardness quickly.

  • mickcuddlemickcuddle

    I turned 70 a couple weeks ago. I enjoy the company of younger people. It energizes me, refreshes my outlook on life. So in general, I seek younger. But at 70, 46 is younger. All people are different, so it is dangerous to generalize, but I might have a difficult time holding up my end of a conversation with a 19 year old. Such judgements are best made case by case.

  • luv2cudl2luv2cudl2

    These are all great and honest answers. As most of you said, I agree that the age shouldn't matter if both people consent. If the cuddling service becomes regulated, you better have a spokesperson who feels the same way. The last think you'll need are cuddle-ignorant people, ready to crack the whip on how it all should be run. The MAC will be out in full force :-).

    (Mothers Against Cuddling)

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @mickcuddle Absolutely agree. It is all relative. Furthermore, I do think it is unfair to generalize younger people. I have met some brilliant 20 year olds and some real dumba** 80 year olds. It is a mixed bag for all ages.

  • kleenkleen

    It naturally feels more at ease when you cuddle someone around your age range. But I’ll be the 1st to say I can really appreciate the older men on this site in that I find them to be more respectful and they typically come into each session with the correct expectations (for the most part).

  • RaindropSweetieRaindropSweetie

    Age doesn't matter to me at all. The vibe a person has, or a respectful attitude, is probably the most important factor.

    @mickcuddle Speaking of which, I think people would have to just be their self even with a 19 yr old. Someone 15 yrs older once tried to connect with me by using what they saw as younger language. He would say things like YESSSSSSSSS, omggg, and mimic me. It was uncomfortable. I asked him to act as he normally does, and he was himself again. Worked out much better!

  • MarthaSpeaksMarthaSpeaks

    @kleen exactly.

  • WrayWray
    edited July 2019

    MOD: Comment removed for expressing intent to hug while naked. Banned. [SoulcuddlerZ]

  • ReltvlyCanshesReltvlyCanshes

    I’d say sliding scale

  • respectfulrespectful
    edited July 2019

    @Wray wrote: "I just want the naked or semi naked hug"

    It's actually against the Terms of Service to ask someone here for that, and a reason people get banned sometimes.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @Wray Wow. Who knew honesty could be so clueless.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @Wray Wow. Who knew honesty could be so clueless.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    Wow it posted twice. Who knew I was that fast.

  • CaringSoulCaringSoul
    edited July 2019

    Age does not matter at all to me. As long as they are nice & respectful, I welcome everyone. I've cuddled with around 150 clients ranging in age from 20 to 60+ years old.

  • [Deleted User]NCCUDDLES (deleted user)

    I do not believe that age has an impact on cuddling. I have been cuddling for a long time and I've had men women children of all ages. Now granted, the children I must get a release for or the parent must be present. I have cuddled with PTSD victims, Nursing Home Patients, Abuse Survivors. I have been told I'm an Empath, which allows me to connect to all people on some level.
    Back to the topic at hand, I feel that everyone has a comfort level. Find yours and snuggle up!

  • HugsAndAttitudeHugsAndAttitude

    My experience has been that people over 50 put off an air of condescension. I stick with 20-40 yo. Why hug liver spots and be reminded of what is coming in the future?

  • triskeletriskele

    I don't mind cuddling older people, but I find that the older a client is, the more resistant they are to respecting my boundaries and keeping things platonic.

  • [Deleted User]MochaHugs (deleted user)

    As cliche as it sounds age to me is literally just a number I definitely like to talk to people to make sure that our maturity levels match our beliefs and morals match but that can range from anyone from a twenty-five-year-old to a 55 year old good energy is good energy and you can't put a number on that

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