Why are they here? Sometimes they even reply but don't seem to want to do anything or talk about anything. Are they doing surveillance? I don't get it.
I don't know what happened but it could easily be that they want to talk and get to know someone for their own comfort before going any further.
@Davebutton I agree with you. They joing one day then gone a few weeks in whipblash when there pofile says the last time they were online. Total waste of time...
So move on. There is no sense being frustrated at something you really have no control over.
@JasonCuddles that's precisely why they should message back if they are truly interested in getting to know someone like you say. And if they are not interested they should respond saying something politely like im not interested, i need more time, or just checking this site out for right now... I mean it's not really that hard. Geeeze. 🙄
@FunCartel it's not a sense of being frustrated as it is more of not comprehending their mentality. That's all. No big deal.
From my observation I get the feeling that some people join just to talk and be pen pals with others if nothing else if they cannot find a cuddle date. Others are serious but find out that it's not so easy to find someone to cuddle with and then quit. I see the same for professionals and non - professionals.
From a female perspective, it can definitely be a little intimidating and scary. The thought of meeting a complete stranger,allowing them in your home or vice versa, letting your guard down to allow a very intimate and personal experience is kinda scary! When you add on to that the thought that some people have some deep seeded trauma, or they are holding on some pain or turmoil. That in itself, and the fear of being raw and having no info I over those emotions flooding out, that can be an absolutely terrifying concept as well.
And then there are people that are just here to lurk, solicit sex, and generally contribute nothing. The blank profiles are very frustrating, especially when couples with no friends, no karma , nothing. There should be basic info that is required to be filled out. If you are too lazy to write 2 or 3 sentences, then I would have a hard time believing that that person would put forth the effort for a mutually satisfying cuddle.
Expecting politeness on the Internet is, um, quite idealistic.
Have we all not read the comments section, or these forums?
Imagine the crap inflicted in private messages.
I totally understand why someone might not respond, at all.
I bet it's the sunglasses in your profile picture.
Don't know. Some might chicken out. Like @dfwfitchick said, it's a pretty unusual and vulnerable position to put yourself into. May not just be women, may be men, too. Who knows? We can't ask them.
@Babichev You hit the nail on the head. Some people just like dipping their toe in the water. Some find that the water is too cold or too hot and leave.