Will cuddling help me?

texremytexremy
in Cuddle Requests

Hello all!
Two years ago, my fiancé passed away without warning.
It really destroyed me, and put me in a bad place.
Recently, I started trying to date again, and it just didn’t feel right. I wasn’t feeling like I was ready for some form of ‘relationship’.
I feel like maybe I need the intimacy that comes with something as relaxing and stress free as cuddling, without all of the stress and expectations that come with dating .
All I know is that I’m craving intimacy, more so than I crave a relationship or sex.
What are yalls opinions?

Comments

  • great_pillow08great_pillow08

    I left a SUPER toxic relationship when I started cuddling and I now have multiple cuddle buddies and it ABSOLUTELY helps. The key is finding cuddlers who only want JUST THAT and won't want to show you that "not all guys are the same" by showing you that they are. If you lived in my area, I'd totally share a few references. It's trial and error, unfortunately. Just follow YOUR gut and don't be afraid to report anyone who suggests "more" than cuddling. There ARE genuine cuddlers out there, but there're a lot of creeps on here too, unfortunately! Good luck!!

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