Traveling the cuddling community

MrCuddlenityMrCuddlenity
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Just Curious. I was wondering if any you travel regularly or in the process of traveling and cuddle while attending a sports event, visiting family, sightseeing, and so on. Is it a necessity or just curious on a particular pro or non-pro cuddler because of word of mouth?

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  • [Deleted User]Aimi702 (deleted user)

    If you're a full time cuddler like me, I'd recommend being a traveling cuddler. I recognize the dangers that can come with cuddling. Meeting strangers and all, I'd rather cuddle outside of the town where I live, and travel for cuddles. Nothing crazy has happened, but it's better to be safe than sorry. To me it's worth it cause I've had the opportunity to meet some really cool people on the road. And its helped improve my mental health by changing cities. It adds a balance I didnt know I needed.

  • MrCuddlenityMrCuddlenity

    Thanks for your response. I am not really a FT cuddler and I don't actually add friends to my profile and all that. It is my business. They know who they are. I see the ladies' profiles from other places that I always wanted to travel to and I look at their karmas for a good number of people who say that cuddler is a not just a person to make you feel safe (especially if they host) but I look for that person's genuineness. I hope for much success for you in the cuddle community

  • TheTouchCoachTheTouchCoach

    I believe that I can answer this as I get many that come from other states, I live in Miami and many come for business travels. Many book since they are away and have the time to relax after work. I haven't travelled and added cities to book sessions but I believe I will for the 3 coming trips I have this year.
    Orlando - Oct 18th-19th
    Tampa - Nov 13 thru 17th
    NYC - Sometime in Dec

  • SashamcgeeSashamcgee

    I typically advertise my travels to other cities. It's given my the opportunity to meet people I never would have otherwise!

    Like for instance when I'm in Kansas city in November and Cincinnati in January 😁😋

  • happybearhappybear

    traveling to a new location, meeting someone new, gives a different 4 walls where you meet with someone . the site makes the world a little smaller
    I love when someone passes through NY. I've been very fortunate to have met so many great people be it in my travels or those ive been in contact with passing through NYC.
    @Sashamcgee- so glad to have met you :smile:
    @SouthFlorida4U -looking forward to you passing through :smile:

  • ILikeWarmHugsILikeWarmHugs

    I've never thought of doing it previously but something about traveling somewhere new and meeting a kind stranger just sounds comforting and exciting. Now having this site as an outlet, I will use this to connect with others when I travel anywhere. I was grateful to be shown Miami the other weekend and this just makes me realize that I want to see more of the world out there.

  • [Deleted User]stsrsstella (deleted user)

    I was actually not sure how to approach this, I travel a lot for work so I am looking for a cuddler in the town I will be at in November. I didn't know how often people did that or if it was frowned on.

  • MrCuddlenityMrCuddlenity

    @ILikeWarmHugs. You think like me. That is a full trip right there to add a cuddle to it.

  • taraslothtarasloth

    I have met a couple of really lovely people who booked me while in town for business. Speaking from the perspective from a pro, it works best when an individual messages and lets me know they will be in town. We are then able to message a bit and figure out if the "fit" is right. Folks who travel a lot are often the ones most in need of human touch. I think it is a great help to schedule cuddles with travel!

  • MrCuddlenityMrCuddlenity

    @tarasloth. I am good with making friends nationally more than in my local area since my college days which is very slow in knowing about cuddling so I can say it adds to the fun when I do travel especially if I drive or fly alone to a city

  • MrCuddlenityMrCuddlenity

    @Aimi702. I am enjoying the comments and what all bring to the community. I missed the line you said "changing cities improve your mental health. It is great to add to your experiences in life and getting out of your comfort zone. I know there times I can be depressed in this slow region I live in so getting outside the area I live in is a breath of fresh air

  • TheTouchCoachTheTouchCoach

    @happybear Yes! I can't wait to meet up in December! I'm waiting to buy my ticket, I've been watching to snag a good deal. =) I'm hoping to stay for 10 days if possible!

  • taraslothtarasloth

    @MrCuddlenity if you are ever in the Houston area, let me know :)

  • SashamcgeeSashamcgee

    @happybear so happy I got to meet you too! New York is a good choice if you want to travel and cuddle!

  • SuperManCuddlesSuperManCuddles

    Yes, I cuddle locally in my state of Florida and travel to cuddle as well! 😃🤗

  • ubergigglefritzubergigglefritz

    Most of my clients were outside of my local area, so I made monthly trips to many different areas. Now I'm full-time in my RV and will pretty much head wherever people request me =) Currently at the NC/SC border heading towards Atlanta, but after I get there, I'll head essentially wherever people want me to, so I'm always collecting information for people anywhere =)

  • [Deleted User]EdoubleN18sngl (deleted user)

    I’m a non-pro but I’ve cuddled been on a couple travel cuddles. I’m willing to make myself accessible for travel as long as it doesn’t interrupt my family life. I really enjoy cuddling and it’s not always easy to find someone close to cuddle. I also travel constantly for different reasons and I will often try to find a cuddle if I know I can make the time.

  • SideonSideon

    My job includes a lot of travel, and through this site I've met pros and enthusiasts from Arizona, Texas, Colorado, Florida, and both Carolinas. Next stops may be Baltimore and NYC in the next few months. Thanks to this site, I've met some really great people.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @MrCuddlenity I take it when you say word of mouth in your initial post to mean karma? If so, yes I do listen to word of mouth, but more than that I go by the vibe when exchanging messages from afar before going to an area. When I send a detailed message trying to engage in a written chit-chat and all I receive is a one or two word response, then I find myself recoiling quickly from that person. I do not need a 500 word essay, but give me something to sink my teeth into. While this is anecdotal evidence, I have also found that the more cautious the cuddler is on the screening and chit-chat (asking questions, etc) the better cuddler they are in person. This probably comes down to confidence and relaxation from me going through their version of vetting.

    And I have cuddled in Massachusetts, New Hampshire, PA, NY, NJ, VA, SC, GA, FL, TN, IL, IN, MI, OH, CA, AZ, UT, TX, NM, MO, KS, and next week marks my first Cuddle in North Carolina. I also have been to China and Italy but no cuddles were to be had when I was there. I have regulars I see in CA, TX, FL, and MO as well as a few repeats in other states. They have been pros and enthusiasts alike. But what I have found through all this extensive travel is the recipe for a great Cuddle really has no geography. The only difference is the number of cuddler options goes up with the number of people in the area. For example, I have no problems in NYC, but I had challenges in say New Mexico. So be yourself and people will accept you.

  • [Deleted User]CertifiedGent (deleted user)

    @Sideon and @FunCartel. I read comments of people on YouTube saying those guys like me who cuddle are weird, desperate, creepy, and so on. Cuddling is good thing. When I have the chance, I would say to them there are men and women who travel because of their job or own business and may not have the time to be in a serious relationship to cuddle. Some men and women may have no desire to be in a serious relationship. Some are social and love to travel like meeting wonderful people and cuddle too. They should not knock it until they tried it

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel
    edited September 2019

    @pcuddleman4921 you are absolutely right. I travel so much that I forget where I am when I wake-up in the mornings. For example, two weeks ago I was in Boston, then DC, then Pittsburgh, then Cleveland all within 5 days before flying home. It can be isolating at times even when you are surrounded by people in close quarters (anyone who has been traveling consistently over 30 years has noticed the phenomena of the shrinking airline seats as Americans expand their waistlines). You can only visit so many cocktail bars, fitness centers and restaurants before it all runs together and the world feels totally depersonalized. That is where a cuddle partner steps in. Cuddling on the road is like grabbing a breath while suffocating—it is glorious relief.

  • SideonSideon

    @pcuddleman4921 - absolutely, cuddling is a very good thing.

    Regarding relationships, anyone who travels (single, married, dating, etc.) has to figure out how they can navigate any kind of social life and the cuddle world. When I'm on specific contracts for months at a time, I try and schedule off-hours activities, such as yoga, drawing, paint nights, cooking classes, bowling, etc., to keep social and not stay locked up in a hotel. On one hand, I'm with dozens of people every day, but at night once you've done dinner and maybe a drink or two and you're back at a hotel, there's a stark sense of solitude that can be overwhelming. Social activities help, but connecting with cuddle pros and enthusiasts is, to me, a natural and enjoyable part of travel.

  • reallifebearreallifebear

    On my next trip to Miami in a few weeks I plan to have at least 1 or 2 cuddle sessions. Will be a first all my cuddles have been in NYC/NJ. Also will be really nice to cuddle in a nice Airbnb - also a new experience.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @reallifebear Lots of really good ones in Miami. Been awhile since I was down there.

  • PeopleLikeUsPeopleLikeUs

    I have the most success while traveling. I message ahead, pull in and often spend the night. I think it works better because enthusiast (Only) in rural areas like meeting someone new and there seems to be more opportunity.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @peoplelikeus Same thing with me. I have a really hard time finding someone in my area but I am sometimes overbooked when I go out of town. It is strange it works that way, but I think for me it is because like you, I have to plan ahead which allows me the luxury of getting to know that person. I do not plan that far out when I am in-town.

  • wrenchwrench

    I travel the east coast and I'm always looking to cuddle with different people. Makes it easier to deal with being in strange new places

  • CatloafCatloaf
    edited September 2019

    I wish I could travel to meet more of you all, as well as some hopeful clients. I've connected well with people here and you're an amazing bunch actually. I'd like it if we prospered enough to have a site meetup someday. Would be awesome.

  • [Deleted User]Alohat (deleted user)

    Yes travel cuddling is awesome!

  • pmvinespmvines

    @Catloaf hey Alabama and Canada aren't too far from ...oh wait never mind Google maps lied 🤣

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