About when I joined this site I thought to just get one of those big teddy bears at the store to cuddle, but I never did hehe. I just, by accident on the net, found these nearly real looking dolls, I mean they really looked real and apparently they feel very real, can be heated, and full size. Costs like 700-1400. I'm not really into that but I was curious to know what people think about cuddling with a maniquinn (sp?)/doll/teddy bear. I watched a Japanese youtube showing some guys that like anime stuff better than relationships with real girls (like video game stuff I guess). The boy, 24 yrs young, who was on said he had never had a girlfriend and he said girls are kindof a mystery to him. They said because anime stuff doesn't lie to you, talk about you behind your back, no drama, they don't hustle you, and so many others that you can think of. He paid for a cuddle session similar to this site, and said contrary to what he thought real girls aren't so bad then went back into the anime stores with his friends seemingly appeared more interested in the anime than the real girl though... last night I became very depressed and I wonder the convenience of the fake versus the real. For me, I have a very difficult time talking to people I don't know and even if I do know them, I'm observed as the kind of person who's not really huggy huggy type and to many I appear intimidating. Heck, I walk down the street at night, just casually walking girls that hapoen by often walk to other side of street. Not to long ago must have been around 10pm I was just casually walking across the street (the same route I have taken for some 16 years) and this girl saw me just walking and hurried inside her condo, quickly locked the door and looked at me through the window as if I were some kind of monster. Nowdays, it seems like the spider...the male does his little dance in front of the female spider and if he doesn't get the dance right the female spider eats the male spider. But if he does get the dance right, they mate and the female eats him anyway. Sexual cannibalism they call it. But in the case of massage and cuddling it just eating away at our wallet instead of the flesh just to have the basic need of being cared for that people like me crave. It's just business, they are professional and treat you well, but is that only because it's their job, they want to retain you as a client, and the affection only lasts as long as the money flows? I don't want to sound offensive to pro's but for me I have never had that kind of affection of a real friend besides my family. And that is what I think women think of me, they will only cuddle if they are being paid to. Anyway...What's your opinion on cuddling fake vs the real people?