I have had some wonderful cuddles with people on this site, but things don't always work out the way you hoped. So I was wondering ...
Always happy to contribute to one of your data-gathering efforts, @respectful. Have I mentioned lately that you're awesome?
You're awesome.
@DarrenWalker yeeesss! He's so very awesome!
A survey like this can be used by the site moderators for future improvements! Excellent.
@DarrenWalker @Sashamcgee @CuddlesInParis Thanks!
For those who answered the poll, feel free to expand on your answer with a comment here in this thread ... just curious what people are hoping for in a cuddle.
@respectful: The best one I had was with @revan. He's a college kid who lives in a dorm near me—I dropped by and we curled up on his bed and talked Star Wars and Trek for a while. It reminded me of the times my family would go out to a friend's cabin and the kids would double (or triple) up in the beds and talk about basically nothing until we fell asleep.
We did actually fall asleep. It was super restful. My stomach doesn't make a great pillow, though: not only is it pretty solid, it basically never stops gurgling. I think that kinda disappointed him, which was unfortunate. We had better luck the other way. He's got a cosy build.
@DarrenWalker I started reading your post and in my mind was thinking Skywalker and Darth Revan. Then you mentioned talking about Star Wars. I thought to myself, "Of course you did, and I'm such a nerd."
@respectful this is a really interesting survey you have going on here! Thank you, as always, for your contribution to this site.
I've found most of my past platonic cuddle buddies through Reddit, Facebook and dating apps. I did meet one person from here but we weren't a good fit so I ended it after meeting up about three times.
I came into professional cuddling with the very naive idea people were looking for cuddling... I have found that some truly are, but sadly, many aren't. I haven't had tons of experiences from this site, but what I've had has been mostly enjoyable.
@DaForceofNature There seems to be a big mixture of motivations here.
What has made the good cuddles enjoyable?
@respectful in my experiences, the good cuddles were the ones that I didn't have to constantly redirect. I have cuddled people from outside this site and they were the boundary pushers. The cuddlers from this site have been much better behaved. Plus, I've gotten way better at pre-screening, so that helps create a better experience.
I'm with @DaForceofNature I enjoy pretty much all of my cuddles as long as the person is respectful of boundaries and genuinely looking for solely cuddles and connection. I have met lots of great people on this site, but that has come along with many inquiries from people who were screened out or who disappeared once I reiterated the platonic nature of my sessions ;-)
-Michelle Professional cuddler with a motorhome, where will I go next?
@ubergigglefritz, I agree with you. Ask any of the cuddlers who I have been with and I respect their boundaries and I get respect in return and second cuddle sessions from them because of it. In fact, as I tell all cuddlers when they meet me, they are the boss and if they don't like anything I do, tell me , and if I get way out of hand they can throw me off the bed/couch and let me lie there!! Cuddlers are human like anybody else, they have boundaries and should be thought of as people rather than toys that someone can rent for a few hours and be disposed of.
@Lev136 I'm still hoping I can make it north before the freezing temps, but not sure 😞 Stupid cold...
Interesting results very mixed.