If you are 30 and older don’t bother messaging me
Even though you have your age preference in your profile, you will always get people outside of that range messaging. Even if you wrote in your profile message saying “don’t talk to me if you’re over 30” you will still get people messaging. It’s best to have patience and ignore it or just create a connection with those outside of your preference just for the sake of creating connections.
Why not put that in your profile instead of announcing it to the world? Now you have opened up a can of worms. You will have people saying you discriminate. You might ask the mods to take this down and you can edit your profile. I bet your messages multiply from those over 30 now.
Wow. Just put it on your profile.
@lexmathis The people over 30 who are messaging you might not even read the forums, so your effort to dissuade them this way won't really be effective. Either way, I'm in agreement with Sheena and FC. No matter what you do, it's just like other sites. People outside what you're looking for will inevitably contact you. If you don't want to connect with them for whatever reason, you can say "I'm sorry, but I prefer to connect with someone in my preferred age range. It's nothing personal, just not what I'm into. Thanks and have a great day." Or just don't say anything. It might come off to some as "rude", but nobody is entitled to another's time, least of all on the internet.
Entitlement to have everything the way you want it right now is not a good approach to entering this community. If you'd like some tips feel free to message me.
Do we really have to start a thread every time something irks us ?
Emotionally I am 21. The availability of a 16-year-old. The wisdom of a 42-year-old. The intelligence of a 24-year-old. The appearance of a 35-year-old. Average all that with my physical age and it comes to... 29.66. Just made it under the cut. If only I didn't have a maturity age preference of 18+.
lol very true @DonLonG
As for the age concerned, I don’t have a age preference but I understand that it could be annoying to keep repeating things. I had an experience that someone kept asking me whether I have Snapchat or kik. I told him sorry I don’t have it, twice. But yeah, I agree with @Sheena123 that we may need to be patient sometimes. But if I have really no interests/patience, I would thank him for contacting me and refuse him/her politely. All the very best @lexmathis
How about over 25? Your profile says age range 18 to 25.
@lexmathis I was hoping for a senior discount.
I personally would cuddles ages 18 to over 100 years old but if you have ages preferences that’s fine too. Obviously anyone over 30 is not a match for you but they are welcome to look at my profile/ contact me as a friend or cuddle buddy lol
Damn im almost passed your standards
@FishCuddles too bad for you. You missed the cut off by three years. In the 1960s the youth used to say they don't trust anyone over 30. I thought of that when reading the blunt opening post.
Someone needs her blanky and safe space.
@snugbuddy Lol I may be 33 but many people still think that I am in my 20s. Which further proves the point that age is irrelevant, when other factors can be considered. Thank you
@lexmathis You are free to post such on your profile and/or modify your Age Range accordingly.
Closed. 06 OCT 2019 22:25 EDT