I like to listen to music and focus on my cuddle partner.
@Mister_Chris I’m not a big movie guy, so with somebody new I like to chat until we are comfortable with each other, then like you, I like to drift off to sleep, especially if the other person is inclined to do the same.
@DarrenWalker what flavors does the yogurt feature? I’m partial to almost any except mango or pineapple.
Usually, they don't want to talk and dwell in their problems. So, I practice my comedy material. Tell funny, self-deprecating stories. Watch funny SNL videos.
listening to relaxing music in the background is about the best addition.
Take turns caressing the other.
@mickcuddle: Oh, sort of a lemon. Or a lime. Maybe orange. A bit acidic, you know? But smooth. I'm just so smooth. No chunks of fruit for me.
...This metaphor may be getting away from me.
I like to feel and use the energy of my partner. Whatever that energy is. Whatever naturally builds through talking, being silent or doing something like eating or watching TV Whatever the moment calls for my spirit goes for.
I like to be still and breathe deeply, enjoying the feeling of the body next to me.