I just noticed that a cuddler who I was supposed to cuddle with took me off her friends list...she doesn't even show up on my cuddling search anymore...but I don't think I was blocked.....Any thoughts on why this would happen?????
Means she deactivated or deleted account
What's it say when you click on the profile ?
She took her ball and went home.
@ pvines, her profile is still up and there is nothing telling me that she de-activated or deleted it. I just found it strange....
She may have just changed her mind then . If she isn't showing in your cuddlers search anymore perhaps she changed locations or changed her preferences . I know for example if someone enters that they only cuddle women then it won't show in your local cuddler search
@pmvines , I am just wondering what happened, if something bothered her, she could have let me know...
And like I said, we were in the middle of making arrangements to meet..
I dunno what to tell you on that. Maybe try messaging her ?
Messaging her would be the only way to know, if she hasn't blocked you or deactivated her account then speculating doesn't do much.
Message her. If she doesn't want to see you she would have probably blocked you instead of unfriending you. Except to share private photos I don't see the use of the friend function here.
Im sorry this happend to you. Best advice I can give is to try to forget about her and move on.. It sucks but its life
He says he doesn't think he was blocked. What's the big deal? All he has to do is message her.
I did message her , will see if she responds.....
Also reappeared in my cuddler search page.....perhaps a mistake...
If her account is muted she won't appear in searches, but you can still i interact. She had to have removed the friend designation herself.
Maybe she unfriended you because she detected boundary pushing language in your messages. Perception can be deadly.
cleans up friends list
@FunCartel , what do you mean? I didn't once ask for sex, and any cuddler who has been with me can tell you that I respect all boundaries???
@Lev136 I have run up against a limit on how many "favorites" I can have, maybe there is a friend limit? If you are already interacting, maybe there was no need to continue having you as a "friend" here. I hope she responds and let's you know.
@DaForceofNature , thank you!!!
@Lev136 It could just be that she decided she didn't want to go through with cuddling with you. As much as that might not be good to hear, it may be just that. Could have absolutely nothing at all to do with you. It just is.
@pmvines, it's just that the whole thing is weird. I have never had a cuddler turn me down........
Again if she doesn't want to cuddle why not just block you instead of unfriending. And if she doesn't want to cuddle why should you care or take it personally? Move on and find someone else.
@Lev136 I did not say you asked for sex but there are things you can write that can turn the ladies off. We have not read your correspondence so how do we know? I am just saying she could have taken something the wrong way.
At any rate, are you saying every woman that you have ever sent a message to has cuddled you? Every woman has responded to you?
@Lev136 .. it’s posdible this Cuddler never intended to cuddle , and was just stringing you along for kicks . Like someone else said , move on
@FunCartel , not all have responded to me, and I didn't say all have cuddled with me. The majority have., I have been rejected here and there. However, just about all who have cuddled with me have been positive about my cuddling.....if I pushed any boundaries I don't know what they were.
@Lev136 You just said you have never been turned down. Here is the post:
@pmvines, it's just that the whole thing is weird. I have never had a cuddler turn me down
So, to my point, if you have sent a message to someone and you see they have been on the site after you send the message and they didn’t respond, you have been turned down.
@FunCartel , yes, like I said I made a mistake!!!
@Lev136 well then, if you have been rejected before move on.
@FunCartel , yes that's what I am doing if I don't hear from her.