Would you cuddle in a...?

Ari90510Ari90510
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Understanding that truck drivers probably need a cuddle more than the average person, I don't think I would be able to cuddle in someone's semi-tractor trailer (I've been asked). I feel bad for judging, but it seems like too perfect an opportunity to be kidnapped and trafficked.

What other places are an absolute no for you?

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  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    Jail

  • DonLonGDonLonG
    edited October 2019

    I COULD NOT, WOULD NOT, ON A BOAT.
    I WILL NOT, WILL NOT, WITH A GOAT.
    I WOULD NOT CUDDLE IN THE RAIN.
    I'D BE TOO NERVOUS ON A PLANE.
    NOR CAN I CUDDLE IN A TREE!
    WITH ALL THAT BARK, YOU LEAF ME BE!
    I DO NOT LIKE THEM IN A BOX.
    EVEN IF YOU LOOKED LIKE MEGAN FOX.
    I DO NOT LIKE THEM WEARING A BLOUSE,
    UNLESS YOU'RE DRESSED LIKE MINNIE MOUSE.
    CUDDLING ON A DARE GIVES ME A SCARE.
    I DO NOT LIKE THEM JUST ANYWHERE!
    IF YOU DO NOT LIKE IT, I DON'T GIVE A DAMN.
    AT ANY OF THESE PLACES I'LL SAY, NO THANK YOU MA'AM!

  • pmvinespmvines

    @DonLonG feeling a little choicy are we 🤣

  • JasonCuddlesJasonCuddles

    Excellent. I was hoping someone would seuss it up.

  • jnagjnag

    Set loose the Grinch!🎄😎

  • [Deleted User]Stillworkin247 (deleted user)

    Most truckers get very special rates for motel/hotels so they should not have a problem not cuddling in a semi.

  • Ari90510Ari90510

    @DonLonG 😄

  • Ari90510Ari90510

    @Stillworkin247 pro tip

  • massageguy87massageguy87

    Yes same people who don't want to cuddle in truck drivers semis same ladies who claim they don't drive or can't host at their place. I find it funny these people are so picky on where to cuddle but won't host at their place or go half on a room.its to much of a double standard

  • massageguy87massageguy87

    Truck drivers surely don't want to kidnap anyone they want a little companionship.get out for I can get more miles and money. That judgemental stuff needs to stop here and this country

  • pmvinespmvines
    edited October 2019

    @massageguy87 That was one person stating their own personal thoughts on what they feel comfortable doing. You are reacting as though this is the opinion of everyone on the site, and you are faulting her for what she needs to do in order to feel comfortable and safe. It is her prerogative. Nothing to get angry or start a rant about.

  • massageguy87massageguy87

    Because she is talking about someone i know thats why . Im proving a point of being judgmental. Its some ladies opinions on this site i know from experience i feel its no different than a place. Associating a truck driver with kidnapping makes no sense .wish people would realize without these truck drivers i guess people associate their living environment as creepy you wont have most of the goods we eat or other products we shop to buy

  • pmvinespmvines

    @massageguy87 It is still one person's opinion and you are projecting and generalizing it as the opinion of others. You are also bringing in other things that don't have anything to do with her personal thoughts on why she doesn't feel comfortable getting into an internet stranger's big rig, such as not wanting to host or pay for a hotel room, or not having food or products etc.

  • massageguy87massageguy87

    U can brown nose her if u want buddy i was highly offended by her comments because its speaking to me and generalizing a certain person and their environment

  • pmvinespmvines

    Nobody is brown nosing anybody. I am simply disagreeing with your generalizations and assumptions. You can have whatever opinion you wish to have. As can she. However you are broadcasting it as though it is a shared opinion and nobody else has said that they feel the same. You are being defensive. I hear that you are upset that she has made a generalization about getting into a big rig truck with somebody she doesn't know. However you are making these comments as though other people are joining in on that generalization and nobody has done that.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    Yeah no truck driver would ever do something shady:

    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Ben_Rhoades

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    This is interesting too.

    https://m.ranker.com/list/truck-driver-crimes/amandatullos

  • Ari90510Ari90510

    @massageguy87 as the saying goes, "a hit dog will holler." I'm sorry you felt triggered by my post, and felt the need to defend yourself. You're not the only truck driver to have messaged me on here. My post wasn't directed to you personally, but since you're here, I will admit your messages to me did make me think about other messages I've received, and the air of safety this platform initially provided to me. Believing everyone is on here for benign reasons is ideal, but not smart. We see users getting banned everyday. We would be silly to think unscrupulous characters are not finding their way on here to target their next victim. That being said, I have no shame in voicing what I am/am not comfortable with, and what I'm cognizant of: kidnapping and human trafficking are two very real things that happen in the U.S. everyday.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @Ari90510 Intelligent people on this site understand you were making a smart decision about safety and where you would not want to cuddle. Always trust your instincts. Some people look for affronts and if they cannot respect your need to be safe as a woman then they are not worth offering an explanation to.

    Peace be with you.

  • massageguy87massageguy87

    Its fine take up for her generalizations of a certain group of people. People should be careful about any environment they cuddle in.

  • cuddlerforu24cuddlerforu24

    Well , somebody out there has it right . If you’re scared of the lion ( or lioness) don’t go to the lions den . Even though there are identifiers like , tag numbers , USDOT certificates , address , etc . Yet there are some that do .

  • mike_honchomike_honcho

    anyone on this sight is subject to being victimized. the environment of what you may deem as safe, can be downplayed by the character of person you choose to share that space with.

    opinions are an entitlement deserved by everyone, but someone that is stereotyping another for any reason demonstrates prejudice...

  • elguapoblancoelguapoblanco

    Most truck stops have no shortages of lot lizards trolling around for business, so I'm not sure how many truckers would be interested in just "cuddling".

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    @elguapoblanco There is that too.

    Bottom line is we are talking about a woman (and any woman) who has reasonable fears of physical safety vs. hurt feelings over a perceived generalization. Sorry guys, your fears of stereotyping pale in comparison to rape, abduction, etc.

  • pmvinespmvines

    When a woman meets an internet stranger for any reason at all , she is entitled to feel safe . Same goes for a man meeting a woman , just statistically speaking there is more risk involved for the woman . We may not be able to control the situation or the actions of the other , but we can control certain things about it, such as where we meet that person . Go on and be mad about that if you want , but it doesn't change a person's right to feel safe .

  • Sheena123Sheena123

    I wouldn’t be able to do a session in a truck drivers haven either. It’s definitely for safety reasons. If you meet at a hotel or even their place, you can give the identity and address to a contact that can back you up if something goes wrong. Meeting right inside the truck, I feel it’s a lot easier to kidnap and drive away. You could take a pic of the license plate and send that to your safety contact but I feel it would be a lot harder to tell my contact to come help me if the client is driving away. With there being a time limit to a session, it’s easy for the contact to just come to the address and help me if it’s needed. The truck wouldn’t have an address for my safety contact to come get me. I could be a half hour to 2 hours away from the meeting point trapped in this guys truck before anything becomes suspicious to my safety contact.

    This isn’t a dog to any truck driver. It’s just a bad move for anybody to have a cuddle session in a truck. It could be amazing and the driver could be an absolute gentleman but it’s just not worth the risk. There are just not enough safety measures provided to make it worth it.

  • cuddlesfordays1cuddlesfordays1
    edited October 2019

    After 2+ years of cuddling, unless in the company of an established and trusted cuddler with whom I've had several positive experiences, I don't feel comfortable cuddling outside of my house, hotel, or a public place such as a movie theatre. It's a bit silly to be cavalier with our safety when we're all aware of the potential outcome. As seductive of an idea as it is that meeting an absolute stranger in an environment you have no knowledge or control of is without risk, unfortunately this isn’t the world we live in, and we would all benefit from taking precautions.

  • pmvinespmvines

    @cuddlesfordays1 I could not agree more

  • [Deleted User]SoftPetals (deleted user)

    @DonLonG 😂😂😂😂😂
    Yeah a tractor trailer would be very uncomfortable for me. But I have camped in my car (3 row SUV) with someone who lived on a huge spot of land in PA. That was fun!

  • pmvinespmvines

    I realize that @massageguy87 is banned , but I wanted to point out that there was never any mention of truck drivers being an issue . OP posted that she doesn't feel comfy with getting into a rig to cuddle someone from the internet . She did not say she won't cuddle a truck driver . And her not wanting to do this is completely reasonable and not any different than not wanting to get into a car with an internet stranger to cuddle .

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