@notcuddledyet Do you think it would be better to seek a cure for the E.D. and at the same time, remove "the need to seek sexual contact" especially considering that 2/3 of heart attack patients experienced E.D. prior? What you have described sounds like an unhealthy attachment to a disease that could kill you. 50% of first-time heart attacks are fatal.
@PeopleLikeUs It is caused by nerve damage from diabetes and my bloods are monitored and now healthy because I've changed my diet and lost a lot of weight. thanks for your advice though. I will ask my doctor
1st depending on the cause ED does not 100% eliminate the possibility of getting an erection. 2. From what Ive gathered on all the other discussion threads I've gone through that discuss the topic the major issue from most women is not that guys get erections during a session it's what they may try to do with it once they get one. 3. And like others have talked there's other factors taken into consideration other than whether or not this guy's going to get a boner !
I see where you're coming from, in theory. If your partner has ED then you wouldn't have to worry about the dreaded "prick poking".
Be that as it may, with your logic then asexual cuddlers would be the very best as there's no sexual attraction at all.
Like I said, I get what you're trying to say, it's just not that cut and dried. ED doesn't prevent inappropriate behaviour anymore than asexuality does.
Again the double standard. Just because a guy has an erection doesn't mean he has to have sex. If a female is wet doesn't mean she has to have sex. Females need to be more knowledgeable and understand equality between male and female, real understanding.
I AM teddy bear that has the E D COMMENT. i see where women cuddlers have more understanding than men opinions. i guess because most men dont want to be know as being vulnerable. i married someone that had been abused and was 100% along with the 5 daughters super dependent on me . and i gave and gave and sacrifice my own happiness for them . and in the end now . they are all very successful. and me bless with 5 college grads and a retirement salary of over the normal of what retirement people make and yet . I FEEL DRAINED I FEEL EMPTY I FEEL LONELY . they never gave back especially my ex . she never reciprocated the love back. I EVEN HAD TO CUT BACK THE PHYSICAL and let her live downstairs while i lived upstairs because IT WAS NOT LOVE MAKING AND SURELY NO INTIMACY it seem more like a duty to her . I DIDNT FEEL I WAS IN A POSITION TO TELL AN ABUSE RELATIONSHIP WOMEN GET OVER IT YOUR MARRIED TO ME NOW but at some point for a marriage to work she and all women going thru something like that DO HAVE TO GET OVER IT DONT THEY .
i have come across many millenial women cuddlers that while its a platonic relationship or experience . they are o k with me touching and exciting them but the platonic phase of it is for them to do the same for me. it goes back to the natural way of giving love attention touch . i dont mind and endorse A PLATONIC EXPERIENCE AS LONG AS IT INVOLVES a great experience of cuddling and touch . and i had some of those cuddle sessions WHERE THEY ARE SINCERELY PLATONIC and know how to touch me that bring me back to the reality that i dont need to get erected to proof im STILL A MAN : but i accept all constructive criticism and comments i respect all :