Starting to think that this is a waste of time.
Shave your head then lose the moustache and glasses and you'll have double the success bro, for real.
@SurfingStephan your reply is hilarious. But 3 x 0 is still 0, lol.
@calineur Not even joking! Unless someone is a horribly deformed mutant or a truly ancient nursing home hasbeen there's no man that can't put themselves into such a state that their presence is at least moderately enjoyable to a woman that meets the half-your-age-plus-seven rule for $80/hr
Snort.
@CuddleSnuggleAB ignore anyone that tells you it’s because of looks. You wouldn’t want to cuddle with someone that only bases you on your looks anyways. As long as you carry a respectful conversation with people, someone will pop up. You did just join this month so you’ll have to be patient. There aren’t a lot of enthusiasts (the cuddlers that don’t charge) and it probably doesn’t help with everyone quarantining themselves with the virus. Patience will be needed. ☺️ Good luck!
@SurfingStephan No worries. I knew you were serious and the advice sincere and practical. I was just trying to be funny.
@CuddleSnuggleAB After joining, It didn't take me long to see that I'd have to hire a pro cuddler from this site if I wanted to find someone right away.
You guys are too funny...:)
Yeah, this month would probably be the worst time to try to find a cuddler. So, coming back post-COVID is an idea if you'd like to give that a try. You can also just get to know people, and get to know the community and such a bit. (Or on that note, I just realized you apparently blocked me. I'm assuming for viewing your profile when you first posted the forum post heh. SO maybe don't get to know the community laughs) I've met amazing people here... If you think about all the people you randomly meet out in the "real world" and how many you click with... (or really how many you don't). It's the same here... Just gotta chat, and be open with interacting people. As @Sheena123 said (especially during COVID) Patience will be needed
"Panic is that which happens in the absence of training"
I recommend using a pro, even if it's only once each year on your birthday. That way, finding an enthusiast is just : more often, for less extra money ; than something instead of nothing.
As I've said before, looking for a female enthusiast is like hitch-hiking ; those you seek have a lot to lose, and little to gain. There is a lot of luck involved, not least in the geography ; and there are no guarantees that any amount of effort will pay off.
He blocked me too. Maybe because we’re not in his area. I know some people automatically block people if they aren’t a prospective cuddler.
Blocking everyone is not going to increase your success rate ...
Yea it’s not a good system
Good point about not blocking anyone that looks at your page. I'm learning that it's about the bigger picture in this community. People talk amongst each other to get feedback and it helps.
"Starting to think that this is a waste of time." makes you a troll or an attention seeker. Either way, crapping on the forum isn't cool.
If you don't like it here, you don't have to come back.