Bittersweet

greenearth2greenearth2
in Pro Cuddling
Is when a regular pro you've been seeing for months and love seeing is moving out of state but let you know when our last session is going to be.
But then she says she's not going to charge for it. And it's going to be a three-hour session
And then you realize she must actually like you this will be the last time you see her

Comments

  • 4cuddles4cuddles
    Aww. Do u think the previous post about how sudden disappearance can affect u helped in any way?
  • greenearth2greenearth2
    Not with this. Since she isn't on this site. :)
  • 4cuddles4cuddles
    Ah I see. Found that post on sudden disappearance very interesting to read. Made me more think of how our communication in many ways can affect relationships, our attachments etc.

    Have u had the last three hour session yet? If so, how was it?
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    This is why I always preach about understanding yourself, your motivations and knowing your limitations. I always say that clients should not see the same pro often so they can avoid attachment. It was my birthday recently and I was a little sad that a couple of the pros I see most often didn't wish me a happy birthday. My birthday falls on a day that's hard to forget. Why was I a little sad about it? I had built up an expectation because I have seen them often. See what I'm saying? There are plenty of pros out there, women in general in the world, don't get caught up on someone that's here to provide a service. I hope that she at least stays your friend @greenearth
  • greenearth2greenearth2
    Not yet. It's not for another two weeks
    But we text every day about it lol.
  • im800mhzim800mhz
    @Morpheus is absolutely right. One of the largest obstacles I have is not developing attachments. I know how Morpheus feels..but at the end of the day it all comes back to self-love. Cuddling should just be an augmentation and expression of love we have of ourselves. It cannot replace it, because no one can replace or substitute the love we must have for ourselves first.

    Easier said than done, ask me how I know. But that is the ultimate goal.
  • greenearth2greenearth2
    So she cancelled.
    Between the pros who disappear without notice after saying they wouldn't do that to this. I'm wondering if there is any honestly left.
    I'm disappointed. But I'll get over it.
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