When you cannot host- ideas welcome

[Deleted User]kindnessfirst (deleted user)
edited September 2020 in General

I’m rarely able to host and I’m in Seattle area looking for good ideas or spots.
Parks, beaches and restaurants are the only ideas I have with movie theaters still being closed. I did hear the drive in theaters are open so that may be an option.

Suggestions welcomed- happy cuddling 🤗

*edited based on warning thinking I’m not being sincere in my ask.

Comments

  • ILikeWarmHugsILikeWarmHugs

    I say where ever you feel comfortable. Some prefer platonic activities outdoors as a starter just to make sure everyone’s cool and then go cuddle at a hotel. Or you can always lay out a blanket at a park and have a picnic and a little light cuddling.

    Whichever you decide, I hope it’s enjoyable. :)

  • [Deleted User]kindnessfirst (deleted user)

    @ILikeWarmHugs I appreciate the feedback. I’m finding many people can’t be a host so it’s a new challenge I’m willing to figure out 🤗 Also I don’t know if people are great at planning to far in advance and for my ability to host that’s what I have to do.
    Thank you again and happy cuddling 🤗

  • ILikeWarmHugsILikeWarmHugs

    Sadly I can’t host so I usually do things like parks or cups of coffee. It’s still a good time though. Hope you come to Orlando someday soon. 🤗

  • [Deleted User]kindnessfirst (deleted user)

    I’ll definitely look you up when I visit 🤗

  • geoff1000geoff1000

    @kindnessfirst
    Please be careful, this is looking a bit like pro advertising.

  • [Deleted User]kindnessfirst (deleted user)
    edited September 2020

    @geoff1000 I edited my post. Better ? I’m
    looking for ideas for this community as I’m sure I’m not the only one in this situation.

  • rob241rob241

    @kindnessfirst True! You're definitely not the only one in this boat sadly 😱 Other suggestions: Have you thought about doing virtual cuddling? I've seen some pro cuddlers do video sessions, some do phone sessions with just enjoying of one's company, after that is what one wants on here 😲 considering in today's climate with covid etc.

  • pmvinespmvines

    A lot of.people get a room somewhere and will either go in halfway, or of client pays the pro will discount the session to reflect their share in the cost of the room

  • geoff1000geoff1000

    I can't host where I live. I'm told that if I rent a hotel room, that makes me the host, but it seems misleading.

  • [Deleted User]Moxytocin (deleted user)

    Hotel rooms. You can find really good deals on hotel rooms on sites like booking.com, expedia, ect. Especially right now. I've found a couple of places near me that allow early checkin (seems hard to find these days - one place I needed at 1:00 but I couldn't check in until 2:30 at the earliest because of their different covid housekeeper schedules, which messed up plans). One place I found -really nice rooms too - offered online booking and reasonabe rates without having to pay ahead, pay at check-in, and ability to cancel right up to checkin time (which is highly unusual). Just have to research.

  • [Deleted User]MissX (deleted user)

    @kindnessfirst @Frz2020 advice is excellent and what I do when I host. I'd add that getting a room with 2 beds is nice so you can have more than one session on a fresh bed w/o having to change the linens yourself. @Frz2020 for those off times outside of the normal checkin/checkout times I've found dayuse.com useful as you can rent a room in a nice hotel for six hours at a time at a reduced rate. Airbnb is also a possiblity is you want to try something different from a hotel room. Good Luck!!

  • [Deleted User]Moxytocin (deleted user)

    @MissX I've heard of dayuse.com and checked it out but there are no listings in my state at all.

  • [Deleted User]MissX (deleted user)

    @Frz2020 Sorry to hear that. I guess it's more useful for those located in bigger metro areas.

  • [Deleted User]Moxytocin (deleted user)

    @MissX This state - Maine. 🙄 We're always the last to get on board with anything.

  • CrossFitNLattesCrossFitNLattes

    I use my coworking office that has 2 couches

  • [Deleted User]kindnessfirst (deleted user)

    All good options, thank you so much 🤗

  • quixotic_lifequixotic_life

    In Seattle? ~ On a ferry!!! ⛴

    Or the monorail, a streetcar, or even the backseat of a bus ~ Just think of them as cheap city tours where someone else is driving so you can focus on each other...

    Or how about the top level of a parking garage, in a glass elevator, a swanky hotel lobby, an under staffed furniture store, at the library, a bench at a museum or an art gallery, on a friend's balcony, on top of the pig at Pike's Place market...

    Okay, maybe not the last one, but I bet if you and your cuddle buddy got creative you could come up with somewhere fun to cuddle.

  • calintzcalintz

    How do sessions work with hotel. I get it if you book an overnight one but what happens if it's for a few hours? Do you check out early? If that's even possible.

  • geoff1000geoff1000

    @calintz
    There must be many cases where people have checked into a hotel for business or holiday, then their plans change and they have to leave early. The hotel won't stop them, any more than a restaurant would stop a customer leaving before finishing their meal.

    UK quarantine rules are prompting a lot of holidaymakers to return early. I once booked a hotel room close to my works and the airport, so I could have a bath after returning from holiday on an early morning flight, and arrive in work on time looking smart.

  • [Deleted User]kindnessfirst (deleted user)

    @quixotic_life thank you so much for the thoughtful ideas! :-) the last one made me laugh too! 😂

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